What's wrong with me if I have never felt completely happy in my relationship and it always feels like sth is missing?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is not much affectionate towards me. He and his words give me the vibes like I'm not much important. I'm mostly unhappy in this relationship and find myself complaining. Is there sth wrong with me?

[Oliverlogan263]

Don’t be so hard on yourself. There's nothing necessarily "wrong" with you for feeling that way in your relationship. Here's what I think:

It sounds like your boyfriend just might not be meeting your emotional needs. If he's not very affectionate and makes you feel not that important, of course you're gonna feel something's missing! No one wants to be in a relationship that makes them feel bad about themselves.

You gotta have a serious talk with him. Lay it all out there - tell him straight up when he says certain things it hurts your feelings, and that you need more care, attention and compliments to feel fulfilled and happy. See how he reacts and if he's willing to change.

If he gets defensive or doesn't seem to care how you really feel, then maybe he's just not The One, you feel me? You deserve to be with someone who makes you their number one priority and shows it with their actions, not just words.

Don't settle for less than what you want in a relationship, player. You got so much to offer - don't let some dude make you feel bad about having needs and feelings. Stand up for yourself and don't be afraid to bounce if he doesn't step up. You'll find someone better who treats you right.

[boggboss]

Yes their is somthing wrong u are in a unhappy relationship and have decided to stay in it

[jahaims]

You probably settle for sub par relationships because you are insecure.