“A woman’s loyalty is tested when her man has nothing.” “A man’s loyalty is tested when he has everything”?

[pethouse]

Do you agree or disagree? Personally I disagree but I want to know what y’all think.

Strongly agree

Agree

Yes and no

Disagree

Strongly disagree

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6 mo

I’d as the guys what they would do if they all of a sudden got rich and women what they would do if they’re husbands all of a sudden went broke but Ik damn well i wouldn’t get an honest answer

[dynamicyandere]

Generally true, yes.


And I don’t take having everything as just money — I look at it as having his whole life in order. Where everything is on point. A total glow up.


If a man has a total glow up and is successful in every area of his life, of course he is going to attract a ton of more options.


He now has plenty of options — and that’s why his loyalty is tested. Because before? He didn’t have as many options.


As for the girl, again, it’s the options thing. She probably has a lot of better options than staying with an unsuccessful guy that doesn’t have his sh*t together yet.


But, if she sticks by his side anyway, that really shows her loyalty and her trust in him.

[OddBeMe]

Ehh, I dislike these tossaway “truisms” because obviously they’re not 100% or even 70% true. They just feel that way.

[WhitneySnow]

No. That’s a gender stereotype. Everyone feels tempted when they all of a sudden get super rich. And most girls today want to have their own money, not rely on their boyfriend to support them.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ve heard that from someone who I stayed loyal to when he had nothing.

His loyalty couldn’t survive after he got everything.

[pethouse]

I’m so sorry to hear

[Anonymous]

I think this is definitely true. It's not the ONLY circumstance in which each has their loyalty tested, but it's. and important test.

[Twalli]

My girlfriend picked me when I had nothing. I want everything so she and I can live in bliss

[scentoflavender]

It's a good quote but in life nothing is absolute

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

You are right there are no absolutes. But there are enough datapoints regarding marriage, divorce, relationships and stories out there to say the overall majority it is a truthful statement to some degree. When men get to a point of earning and being prosperous, other women will tend to want a piece of that and the temptation becomes to great. They realize they have multiple options and they will accept. No, not all of them but it does hap[pen in a overall majority.

In the other spectrum. There are more than enough stories that if that same man hits rough times, loses his job or has a medical condition, then his spouse, again not all, but the majority will divorce him and go find other pastures. Whether that is 3 months to 3 years the cycle is repeated over and over.

[Nikki1989]

Life is not so black and white.

[exitseven]

It is true in a lot of cases.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats only true in a gold digger scenario.

[Jackblue]

There is certainly some truth in that.

[Kingofkings1992]

Women are like children with breasts

[Ifitbtbtb]

I’m not dating a man who isn’t willing to provide.

[Unit1]

Obviously.

[Chthou95]

Very true