Why do men have affairs?

[Unknown2o22]

Not a fling, or a series of cheating, full blown affairs?

[Anonymous]

I know a lot of people said for the same reason women do. I have to disagree. Women usually have to be emotionally involved w a man to sleep w him. Men not so much. They’re both wrong but for different reasons. Do some men cheat because their needs aren’t being met whether emotionally or physically? Sure. But I think that happens more so w women. Most women aren’t just going to spread their legs for some dude unless she has some feelings involved. A man will whip out his Johnson to just about any woman w out having feelings for her. I tend to think it’s nature. Maybe I’m wrong. Believe me I’m sure there’s a lot of men just like myself who wish they could turn that part of their brain off. Life would be much easier. But I can’t. No more than a female can turn of their emotions. A man will fuck a chick, then move on. Never see her again. When a man catches his girl cheating he usually doesn’t ask do you love him. It’s more about what did he do to you. Was he better than me? Was his dick bigger? Women tend to ask a man do you love her? Do you have feelings for her? That’s what women think because they know that women usually have to have feelings for a man to sleep w him. Men think w their dicks when we do that, so that’s why we usually ask those questions in regards to her cheating.

[Unknown2o22]

I agree with that. Would a man continue to have a sexual relationship with someone he didn’t have feelings for?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes my here is a chance he would. Not so much because he cares for her emotionally hit maybe because it’s something new. I don’t mean new as in something his girl doesn’t do. I mean sure that could be a reason but I mean new as in someone else, the excitement there.

[Unknown2o22]

Yeh that makes sense. I think it’s that

[Opinion Owner]

For most men when they cheat, although yes it’s wrong, it’s usually not about feelings. Maybe sexual feelings but nothing as far as being in love w her or something. I mean hell there’s a lot of women I’d fuck, doesn’t mean I’m in love w them. Maybe infatuated w, or something like that but as far as love. That’s on a whole different level than just purely sex.

[jahaims]

People cheat because of unresolved trauma and or mental illness

[Sour-rose]

Cause they weak. Ones who are bored or not faithful will find any way to not be with their partner.

[EmmaMary]

Possibly for the very same reasons that some women do.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[ProbablyClueless]

For the same reasons women do; they don't feel emotionally fulfilled in life, and they blame on their marriages.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women do it, and at your age women do it just as much as men do.

And that reason is that they are not satisfied.

[NikolaiIvanovB41]

Same reason why women do.

[In_Trance]

For the same reason women do

[Luckycharms12]

Not just men that have them

[Unit1]

More sex.