Why do married men do this?

[Anonymous]

I work an overnight job at a casino. I get a lot of guys that flirt. I never pay it any mind. I feel like it comes with the environment and it makes my time at work go by faster and I also get tips. This guy was no different. He’s talking to me and he tells me he’s not from this city (Chicago) but he’s from Miami. Theb he says he doesn’t come to Chicago much and looks at my Pandora ring (Not an engagement or wedding ring), it’s just on my ring finger because I like it that way, and he goes “I see a ring on your ring finger. You must be married or engaged.” I said no. Which I’m not. It’s just fashion. It adds to my look. I’m single. Then he gives me a side look and goes “Well I do have a wedding ring.” Which prompted me to look down and he did in fact have on a wedding band. I then said “Let me get away from you then.” And began backing away and he literally calls for me to come back. I put my hands up as to say “I’m good” he nodded his head respectfully and walked off. My thing is, why do men even get married just to cheat and sleep around with anyone who’s willing? Just stay single.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I know that stuff gets old real quick! Some guys just have no self control, even when they made a vow. Maybe they get bored, want the thrill, who knows.

Either way it ain't right what he was trying to pull. You handled it perfectly getting away - you don't need that kind of trouble! Could've got you into an awkward situation fast.

Honestly men will be men, but the married ones should know better. Think they want their cake and eat it too. I'm always saying if you're not gonna be faithful, at least be up front so nobody's dragged into your mess unawares!

Stay sharp out there - you gotta watch your back with some of these customers. But don't let it get you down, just do you and keep shining like I know you do. And maybe leave the pretty rings at home, just in case - can send the wrong message sometimes unfortunately! Keep your head up girl.

[Nirmroth]

Eh married women do that too. Its just getting the affirmation that you're still on the market thats the main motivation.

A girl on my work whos married since 2 years (she's 27) flirts with me regulary aswell but we do it for fun I dont think she would follow up if I were to get serious.

[Nirmroth]

A cheater would hide al signs of beeing married or beeing in a rl. This guy showed you that he's married likewise that girl on work mentions her Husband positivly from time to time to draw the line

[MsProsperity]

Even married women do that. Many married men admitted that marriage is boring but that doesn't mean they don't love their wives. Some say they are tired of having sex with one person. You did well by walking away, he was going to use you as fuck

[Asker]

I know. It’s just weird to me. I knew his intentions. Even if he wasn’t married. I knew his intentions was sex the moment he said he wasn’t from here. If he was single I would have gotten his number and he would have gotten mines but I wouldn’t have entertained him from there because men are still just men but it was just the simple fact he was married and admitted to it at that. It makes me think most women he’s told that to didn’t care considering how freely he told me.