Do some stories make you feel glad you are not married?

[Anonymous]

https://www.msn.com/en-gb/lifestyle/relationships/i-cheated-on-my-wife-because-she-s-fat-i-don-t-find-her-attractive/ar-AA1iUg6j?ocid=msedgdhp&pc=WSEDDB&cvid=97bdf103f929409888dfe462aaa0aa68&ei=10

i focus my love on god, animals, children and old people and myself. honesly i havnt yet found a man worth loving tbh

[TalkWithoutSpeaking]

Huh. Yeah. I mean not as much anymore cause I'm starting to understand the relativity of it all but some stories of my parents' marriage and their hardships with raising my brother and I used to really turn me off from the idea of getting married and having kids. Big time.

[Unit1]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/LAZthh6TKtg

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Ass a man in the Us today, yes, all the time.

[Asker]

single life is amazing. i just want children then i will just live a great life with my kids and ditch the guy. men suck.

[Opinion Owner]

So you're another one of those women who willingly create fatherless children despite the fact that it is very hrmful to children. Could there be anything more selfish?

[Asker]

and you are another one of those men who judge women who want to have children without a husband yet doesn't bother judging all the fathers who leave their pregant girlfriends. at least those children are wanted and are often the happiest children because their mother would do anything for them. also every single child has a father. they can't choose to fight to see their kids if they dont they are the a hole.

one more thing you are judgmental a hole.

[Opinion Owner]

I judge those men just as harshly because they are just as selfish as women who choose to bring children into the world knowing they will be fatherless. There literally isn't a more selfish thing a woman could do. It's purely self serving and it's harmful for her children. Why in the world would a woman CHOOSE to do that? Talk about a selfish a hole.

[Opinion Owner]

What do you think your God would think of you?

[Asker]

how do you know i believe in god. have you been following me. if god wants me to get married he will send me someone to marry. to be honest i would rather be married and be in love but i have been verry badly hurt and i dont think i will ever recover until i die. i want kids but men are just to much for me to handle. every kid has a father. even the kids from sperm banks have a father that kids can contact. if they choose not to get involved that their choice i am not gonna force them my kids will still be the happiest kids because i am their mum and i will do everything for them.

[Opinion Owner]

Did you already forget what your wrote in your question here? Go back and read your first six words.

"every kid has a father. even the kids from sperm banks have a father that kids can contact" <- Are you really ignorant enough to believe that? You think a 3 year old girl is going to try to track down her father from a sperm bank? Children need a father in their lives most when they are young, not just when they are old enough to search the world to find him.

Fathers who leave their children are horrible people, and so are women who choose to have children without a father given all the statistics we now know about the effects on children raised without a father. Here are just a few of the countless problems fatherless children, and the adults they become, typically face.

63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes
90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes
85% of all children who show behavioral disorders are from fatherless homes
80% of rapists with anger problems are from fatherless homes
71% of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes
75% of adolescent patients in chemical abuse centres are from fatherless homes
85% of youths in prison are from fatherless homes
71% of pregnant teenagers are from fatherless homes
63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes

The best mother in the world cannot prevent the inevitable mental and emotional problems children experience when they don't have a father in tehir lives, or the chronic problems adults face when their childhood was incomplete and damaged by fatherlessness. The best mother in the world isn't capable of raising a boy to be a strong, confident, capable and well adjusted man. The best woman in the world cannot raise a girl into a woman who will choose good men who will treat her right, and have a healthy relationship with him.

And yet you are selfish enough to subject your own children to that? Come on now, be a better human being than that.

[strawberrybaby3]

Yes. I’m really not interested in getting married

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

No 😂😂i laugh it off

[riverrat3]

Not all guys are that bad