Should I date a forty year old?

[catarecute]

i want to get married but i dont find people under 40 mature enough to get married to. but i am scared forty years old men might have children with disability because of low quality sperm. i take care of my body but i dont think men think so much about that stuff. 30 years old are like 20 year old but more up themselves. should i go for the forty year old. i am not sure.

[MikeTheBartender]

Absolutely. I date younger women all the time, the important thing will be to make sure he is on the same page as far as kids go. Some guys that age will not want them anymore if you want them. The sperm part I am not sure, but I think statistically the woman has to worry more about her age than the male. I have a vasectomy so personally I'm not too dialed in on that though.

[catarecute]

statistically most disabled kids have older father. men have a biological clock as well. ad they don't take care of themselves as well as women they smoke more and drink more.

[MikeTheBartender]

Unfortunately then you know your risks and will have to weigh them out ❤️

[catarecute]

yea i think its too risky. i know ways to make sperm more healthy with diet but the man might not want to do that

[Billlewis]

Is he willing to provide for you financially, and is he willing to accept that you may want to date other men occasionally?

[catarecute]

i dont cheat.

[Apple1996]

If you want kids then go for a younger guy. Maturity has nothing to do with age. A 20 year old man might be more ready for a child compared to a 40 year old man. Just depends on a lot of factors

[Anonymous]

age doesn't always mean maturity... why not find someone who has the same interests in you and not look at age?

[exitseven]

If you like older guys then by all means, go for it. Lots of guys have kids later in life and their old sperm is not a problem. I would be wary of somebody old enough to be your father.

[catarecute]

i definitely like older men maybe i could cook them healthy food for a year so they have healthy sperm.

[exitseven]

If they are in decent shape, do not smoke or use drugs and don't work in a nuclear power plant they are probably okay

[Tim2nice]

Disabilities are genetic not specific to age. Births though are a tad more complicated the older you get.

[catarecute]

depends on lifestyles. trisomy which is responsible for birth defect and down syndrome is scientifically proven to be related to older father who didn't look after themselves. google it and you will see i am not lying.

[Sabretooth]

If you think that a 40 year old is gonna automatically be mature... You're gonna be disappointed.

[boggboss]

Thats your choice lol not really sure

[eagle1951]

oh go for it lol