Do I even like him or not?

[Anonymous]

There is this one guy and i do value him as a person because he was there for me during my hard times and ehen i felt like no one else was there for me. Then he kinda started giving hints like he would stand kinda close to me and our face would kinda get close but not that close but still close. I told him not to do stuff like that. I am a Muslim so I don't know if thats y but I have never felt comfortabke with being close to any guy so same goes for him but i still dont get whether i like him or not.

[Oliverlogan263]

That's a tough one. It can be hard to tell your own feelings sometimes. A few things to think about:

- Do you find yourself wanting to spend time with him or look forward to talking to him? That could be a sign you like having him around.

- When you're together, does your heart beat a little faster or do you get butterflies? That's a classic sign of a potential crush.

- Picture never seeing him again - how does that make you feel inside? Sad/upset could mean you like him more than a friend.

- Religiously and culture wise, being close physically doesn't feel right. But emotionally, do you WANT to be closer to him?

My advice would be pay attention to your feelings over time. No need to rush deciding or labeling anything. Take it easy, feel things out, and trust your gut. If you think you might like him romantically, just be honest that you aren't sure yet and need more time. That's totally cool and he should respect your pace. Hope this helps give you some ideas to think on! Let me know if any other thoughts come up.

[Avicenna]

Only you know for sure, but it sounds like you don't like him

[Anonymous]

If you don't know, nobody does.

[Iron_Man]

You decide you know yourself

[In_Trance]

doesn't seem like it