Which is better to you: a ride or die partner/spouse or a ride or die best friend (if you only had one and not the other)?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Partner/spouse

Best friend

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5 mo

@GAG could you change online to only

[Xoxocutekitty]

Definitely better to have a ride or die friend!

Friends are supposed to support you, no matter how wrong you might be, and they'll be there for you to the best of their ability. BFFs know where you've been, and they know you when you're ugly and crying or hot and thriving. They wipe your tears and straighten your crown.

Any ride or die partner has always ended in a volcano of passion and ice. Now it's normal to want your partner to be your biggest supporter, but quite frankly, they should also motivate you to be the best version of yourself. Nobodies perfect, but putting your partner through the wringer is more often toxic. Your partner should be there to comfort you, to soothe you, to talk you down from recklessness...

[DextroShade]

That attitude is going to lead to you dying alone.

[PrincessBunBuns]

Ride or die partner. Because my partner would also be my best friend

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Those are the best relationships

[Peter_Penetrator]

Married people can’t build something from scratch if the other doesn’t share in that belief.


It is very unfair that if you express your desire, to your fiancé, that you want to build a life with them only to then find out later that your partner is only after what they can gain from the marriage.


Basically, by being married, your partner now has the financial freedom to do as they please. Just because the two of you discussed your wishes, doesn’t mean they agree. And for them to keep their objections to themselves is wrong.

[Lynx122]

I've had a close childhood friendship but it didn't last. But my girlfriend right now is so committed so I voted for girlfriend :) But both things are nice. Maybe I'll find another close friend. I'm being more open and social so I'm connecting with more people so the chances are higher now to find a close friend again :)

[dynamicyandere]

I would want a ride-or-die significant other. That’s going to be the most fulfilling kind of romance and marriage. One where you trust and support each other wholeheartedly.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why can't your spouse also be your best friend?

[Jaximus-Lion]

My partner is a (Ride or Die) and i think it's enough... Well! My brother is too and i do the same for them

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That’s awesome!

[aceleon]

best friend a spouse doesn't have what a best friend can offer to me.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah I had two husbands. , one we divorced, the second is deceased… yet I’ve known my best friend longer than the both and she’s still in my life… she’s really my sister in my heart ❤️

[aceleon]

so happy for you, i hope you cherished each other like you both deserved.

[aceleon]

everyone can find a partner but a best friend is 1 in a million.

[Jamie05rhs]

A spouse. Because you can have sex with your spouse.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

True 🤣

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol.

[Mangospacho]

Spouse because the agreement is in writing.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

These days that means nothing to some these people out there

[Dinklex3]

… I’d hope my spouse would be ride or die, lol

[PizzaDaddyo]

I’m a ride or die friend easily. So I would want a Ride or die lady and that’s what every guy should pick.

[turnpost]

Your ride or die friend will have to chose between her Boyfriend or you.

Your ride or die partner will only need to chose between your or his or herself.

The partner is a lot more simple of a lifestyle.

[sheenagwapa]

romantic love is one of the strongest love out there even stronger than mother's love so i choose spouse

[WhyohWhy69]

Your spouse is supposed to be the best friend you have.

[Altheavas]

I wish my spouse was ride or die.


I would rather both, If I could!

[Anonymous]

A friend all the way. Friends are for life if they r good. The relationship with a romantic partner involves a lot of emotions that might not make it last forever. But with a friend things are more simple

[mark66]

I move around a lot have since I was a child. Since me and my partner started being serious she's always there for me and I her. After I finished Uni we started traveling but I've barely spoken to my friends from uni.

[Anonymous]

One thing no one notices is that most partner/love things start based on your physical attraction but friends never care about how attractive or beautiful you look

[Clyde_123]

A ride or die partner/spouse for me. He can also be my best friend.

[ariadneR]

What if they're the same person?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Then you have the best of both

[hppygrl]

When you are in a happy marriage/relationship everything else falls in place. I love my friends but hubby is always first for me… my friends are the same way in their relationships.

[MissBoogus]

I don’t know how to answer this because my partner would always be my best friend

[LiamJHayden]

I have only experienced the Ride-of-Die best friend, so I'll take that.