My partner was being grabbed at a concert and didn’t tell me until we were leaving. what’s everyone’s opinions?

[Anonymous]

So my partner and I were at a concert and when we left she started telling me about how a guy next to her was grabbing her around the waist while I was grabbing drinks, she said she told him she has a partner and that she was pushing him away but when I came back she was next to him, didn’t say anything but I saw he was very close and pulled her in front of me, when she was telling me about it she treated it like it was a joke and her excuse for not telling me was she never got the chance because it was loud then she changed it to not knowing what I would do

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn dude, that sucks your girl went through that. And she for sure should have told you right away what was happening instead of playing it off like it was no big deal. I'd be pretty pissed too.

A few things to keep in mind though - she was probably scared in the moment, especially since that creep didn't back off right when she said to. And it can be embarrassing too, like she thinks it's her fault or something. Girls get weird about that stuff sometimes.

Her waiting to tell you definitely wasn't cool either though. I'd want to know right away if some dude was hassling my girl. You should talk to her, let her know you're there to back her up, not be angry. Maybe she'll be more honest in the future.

Just watch her close when you're out now. And if you see that dude again I wouldn't blame you for saying something. But try to stay calm - not worth getting kicked out or arrested over some drunk idiot. As long as your girl knows you've got her back, that's what matters most.

[Uby10000]

My guy she is probably teasing you in the best case scenario or she is a blatant liar on the worst case scenario.
Basically she either gets comfortable too much with other people or she likes to tease you this way, clinging to other men. I suggest you talk about it in this way, and ask her if she just wants to tease you. If she doesn't give you an actual answer i suggest you revalue your relationship since she isn't considering yourself much anymore

[sheikalana]

I guess she didn't want to spoil the mood or didn't want you and the other guy to start a fight at a concert.