Would you trust your gf/bf to go to a festival/concert?

[AleDeEurope]

Even if you're now single, imagine you have a boyfriend or girlfriend.

Yes

I would be worried

No

Other

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+1 y

Just to clarify, I'm not saying if you allow them to go, I mean if you would be worried they may cheat.

[bedroomdweller]

Yes, I would trust her. I would prefer if she would invite me in stuff she knows we can enjoy and chill together to, but I'm not her dad so I can't demand her not to go. Also, bear in mind the freedom you give you expect to receive. So whenever you want to do something on your own or with friends she can't say no either. I guess letting each other have fun separate ways, on ocassion, is healthy as long as shared time is spent together mostly or at least equally.

The risk of her cheating is always there bro... just make sure you two are in good-great terms when apart and that you give her a good dickin' before parting ways for whatever event lol. Advice her not to drink much and take care of herself. Also, the ocassional text during is great too, you're still in constant contact but never make it excessive. Whatever happens, will happen either way so bear that in mind.

[matheus_mb]

I would give her my vote of trust, if she really loves me she won't do anything. If she cheats and I discover it, I just break up without giving time for further explanation.

[Darkfairie17]

There's nothing to worry about if you trust them. Honestly if you don't trust them at a festival or concert or anywhere for that matter, then maybe you need to re-evaluate your relationship.

People meet other people anywhere. If a person wants to cheat or leave, they will. It's not going to take a concer to make them want to do that. Temptations are everywhere.

[Natattack21]

Honestly, I have to say, I'm a great woman. I bring a lot to the table. If my significant can not see that. Then, he can go to hell. I dont need him lol

[ElissaDido]

Yes but I will be jealous! We're both crazy possessive and jealous but we trust eachother.

[AleDeEurope]

Why would you be jealous if you trust him?

[ElissaDido]

I know he won't do anything but I don't trust girls over there😭 He always talks about how party girls are I don't trust them 😡😤👊🏽

[AleDeEurope]

Hahaha true

[Omar5881]

Piu is busted

[ElissaDido]

@Omar5881 yeah now he is.

[xKayTea]

Yes of course, I recently went to Download festival, I am really lucky to live right next to it, I invited my boyfriend but he didn't want to go as live music and big crowds isn't his thing, I had a great time and he had no issues.

If he ever did change his mind and started to not mind crowds etc, then I would be fine with him going! We would probably go together, but if not I'd still trust him.

The only thing I'd be concerned about is if your partner has a history of betrayal, and a friend group full of redflags as sometimes your partners friends can say a bit about your partner,

I know lads and girls that go to festivals to gawk at the opposite gender or get laid (of course for the music too) and if he were going with a group of guys like that, I'd come with him, but neither of us have friends like that luckily.

[AriadneSky]

if i dont trust them i should be with them. plus if he wants to cheat he wants to cheat keeping him from going places dopiest change the fact he's not happy. i dont want someone staying with me just bc they happen to miss a cheating opportunity if they are unhappy they should leave. not going to a concert doesn't fix a thing. pus ill have things i want to do whiteout him can't be a hypocrite.

[alice55]

Yes, if you go on a concert it's for enjoy music. He can meets girls who like the song but that doesn't mean he ll sleep with them...
Also i wouldn't go out with a player or any guys like that. I would trust him.
In the worst case if you don't trust your boyfriend / girlfriend just go with them. It's easier than doing a scene of jealousy or forbbiden them to go.

[Emmiliana20]

I would be worried, not of him acting on it (cheating) but him being exposed to the craziness of what goes on in concerts.

[AleDeEurope]

But if he won't do anything, why worry?

[Emmiliana20]

Picking up bad habits.

[Ezra_lila]

I'm not sure but the nature of my boyfriend would just say "naaaahhhhh I would prefer stay at home and be on my own "

He is a bit introvert and find himself more comfortable on his own and be with his partner or be around people he knows.

Thats how I know him. But I don't know what he is doing without me though.

[rubyrose83]

I'd have to. What choice would I have? I'm not his mother, I can't stop him from going. If he's going to do anything inappropriate, he's going to find a what to do it regardless

[Streamhopper]

Good answer. I'd trust them, but I've got confidence. In a purely hypothetical situation where I didn't know, I'd agree with you.

[ShaiBae7]

No I wouldn't be. If I am with them, then I trust them. When there's no trust, there's nothing left between us. Anything that he/she does behind my back will come to the light.

[front2back]

I have seen some girls with BF's do some crazy stuff at shows once drunk

[AleDeEurope]

Yep, I've seen that too lol

[fauchelevent]

Meh, yeah, sure. I don't see why I wouldn't be going too though, we like more or less the same stuff :P

[deraz24]

I would trust them for the most part, when I go to a concert I'm more pressed ab the music than anything else

[Maypai]

Of course. Trust is a big part of a relationship. If you can't trust your partner why even be together?

[Izumiblu]

no, wouldn't worry, if i had to worry about every little thing like that i wouldn't be with them long.

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

fuck is that asshole going to a festival or concert without me for? >:[

but nah. i wouldn't care probably.

[whatsername]

No trust means there's no real relationship. also if they have enough time to walk away to go to the restroom they have enough time to cheat.

[Liisjak]

I kinda want my girlfriend to go out and party without me, she needs her own space and friends... else they're all bitchy. And if the only way for her to party is to find somebody to hump, well my friend you chose poorly.

[CheerGirl38139]

If I can't trust the mother fucker, why is he my boyfriend in the first place?

[Idonotgivearatsass]

Trust is the most important thing you can have in a relationship... if you can't trust your partner not to cheat, then you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person or in a relationship period.

[iFarted]

Yes but if its with just one dude and I was not invited then no. But then again if that happened id break up with her anyways.
I generally trust my girlfriends and if I dont then I already have a big problem

[Bandit74]

I don't trust girls who get drunk and go to huge parties so I probably wouldn't get involved with one in the first place.

[lovydoey]

Im not jealous nor controlling so yes I will let him