Would you trust your boyfriend/ girlfriend to go to a party alone?

[Angxl3120]

Like a college/ school reunion, or a club.

[Miristheiss]

It depends on what we are talking about.

The club? I don't commit to women who want to go to clubs.

The type of party, the type of people there, is it some drunk fest, wild party? It would just depend. If it is not the type of environment I want her at why is she even wanting to go?

I am beyond any party years. When I was in college and I attended some parties I was always single. I am married now. I cannot relate to people still trying to do with when they are in relationships. If the girl is 20 or something young and still wants to "party" and drink then she should be single. Why is the guy trying to be in a "relationship" if she is still in a party phase.

If it is not this type of "college party" then I'm sure I could get on board.

Here is another kicker. Why am I not going? My wife and I attend most social events together. If it is a "party" why is she going without me?

[Gigerpimp]

I don't know that's a touchy subject the fact ur asking means he's givin you a reason to feel like u shouldn't already so things are on the rocks already then u tie in old friends and exs who will be there who knows might hit it off with a long lost ex but might not its a hard subject but if ur already feeling like this u should probably think about looking els where foe a new guy u shouldn't even need to ask ur self this ur beautiful and deserve it

[Amara_09]

Lol……if you do not trust your boyfriend or girlfriend then find someone else to stalk and control.


This is a very bad thing to do to someone you are dating. It’s childish.


So what if they are going to a party? Are you going to really follow them around like a stalker and guard them? What’s your endgame here?


Trust. If you can’t trust your partner and you seriously need some help.

[DizzyDesii]

Trusting my partner doesn't mean i trust the mfs around them. I live in a town where women were known for ruffying/roofying men. He better not go to a party especially without me

[HawkPerception]

I would, but I always invite my girlfriend to whatever events I'm invited to, so I would expect the same in return. It's about being inclusive with your partner. Don't get me wrong. If it was a a girls night out or a 1 on 1 with one of her friends that's a girl, I'd be like sure, have fun. But if it's a mixed group, I would hope my partner is emotionally intelligent enough to be inclusive and invite me and if I can't make it, to update me when they can about who they're with and where they are to build trust. I would obviously do the same if roles were reversed. You can't build trust from nothing.

[D_Bone_Steak]

She'd probably hand out some pussy and have a train ran on her. Fuck no.

I wouldn't go myself... same shit is going to happen, just different gender.

My question would be, if you're in a committed relationship, why would you even consider going to something like this? The outcome is to fuck someone, so just why if that's not your goal?

[D_Bone_Steak]

After thinking about this question... I'd leave her just for asking to go to such a thing. Hell no... she's a slut if she just wants to go to a place and get tempted at every turn. If she thinks that's fun... red flag. Of her and for me. The relationship should end before she even goes... it should end just because she considered it. She's an attention whore... nothing but problems ahead anyways. So go bitch, you just won't ever talk to me again. Not my problem. Enjoy the dicks.

[D_Bone_Steak]

No reason to add drama to her attention seeking... I'd be out. She's a slut just for thinking about doing it... game over.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. I believe if you are in a relationship with someone then by default you have to trust them when you aren't around or you go to sleep in their presence otherwise just don't waste your time with them to begin with since is going to end anyways at some point as trust is a key factor in a relationship.

[MrPickles13]

Yes I would trust my theoretical girlfriend to go to a party. It's important to be able to trust your partner and frankly as I see it if you don't trust them you have big issues in a relationship to the point should you even still be in said relationship if there is no trust.

[TenderFantasy]

Depends on what type of party. A Bachelor's party? But yeah, for the most part, why not? I mean, this person has not given me a reason to distrust him? Unless he did..

[Screenwriter]

If you can't, you've got the wrong SO! Trust is the basis for any good relationship.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm on the fence with you on this one. Trust and watch her fuck some other dude, but at the same time if she's a cheater this is a good way to weed that shit out early... tough predicament.

But... I do have to ask... what kind of chick would be begging to go to one of these parties... Red flags and reasons to leave are given before you as a dude even say yes or no.

[Screenwriter]

@D_Bone_Steak It's a party, not a naked sex exchange!

I've been to parties alone, chatted with friends and folks, had a drink and gone home. Had a nice time. It's not about the PARTY. It's about the PERSON going to the party. Parties are no more "cheater" sites, than anywhere else. You can find opportunities to cheat at a club, a party, a pool, a barbecue, a church, a work meeting... ANYWHERE!!!

Has absolutely nothing to do with WHERE you're going. Has to do with the intentions of the person going.

[bobalife]

Sure why not, I’m sure couples do their own bros and girls night, then with each other in friends group lol.

[RebelinSteel]

Yes I have in the past and will in the future. If you cannot trust the person you are in a relationship, then don’t be in it.

[boggboss]

Yeah wouldn't be with them if I didn't trust them to some degree

[AndreaScker]

Yeah because my boyfriend is free to fuck anyone he wants

[Nikki1989]

Of course, if you can't trust, you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea I can always break up with them if they cheat, although I would try convincing them to not go just so they don't say I didn't put effort to prevent something like that from happening.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

If I didn't, we wouldn't be dating. The people at the party can try, but my girls the one making that final decision.

[slatyb]

Of course. If I didn't I wouldn't be with them. Or we would be talking about having an open relationship.

[PeachyPie93]

Depends on if I trust my partner in general but I would assume so.

[jaskin777]

Fuck no
Plus people can spike ur drink
Hellno

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes, if I was in a relationship. Will never be in a situation where I worry about someone’s loyalty again. Shoot I’d want to go though so I’d make a case for me to go out too.

[soe11]

I trust my girlfriend, she never go alone though, either with me or her mom or her female friend.

Your boyfriend must trust on you, otherwise no point having boyfriend or girlfriend.

[FunkyMonkee]

I thought I could `til I discovered the mini-bitch had been cheating on me for the last 3 of our 10 years together!

[puurikke]

Yes. If you don't you should end the relationship or you should work on yourself. Either he/she has cheated before or you are way to jealous.

[Phoenix98]

I would trust my partner but I for sure would not trust the people around her.

[Booklover_90]

Do you have a reason not to trust him? That’s the real question. Think about that.

[Anonymous]

Sure, but on that same token, I'd not date someone who was into immature things like partying. Just not into that bullshit.

[OtterMan68]

If I did not, she would not be my girlfriend. If she's my girlfriend, I trust her.

[RedInnocent68]

Yes. Who am I to stop her? I have places to go and thing to do as well.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Yeah. She’s a grown ass woman. If she wants to cheat, she will.

[LiamJHayden]

If I didn't I would not have a relationship with her.

[MissBoogus]

Of course I’d like it if they got out for a few hours

[nawtee_me]

Yes, I don’t have trust issues and I trust her until I have a reason not to and then she won’t be my girlfriend anymore.

[Squatting_Slav]

Of course, I would trust her. A woman who really loves her man wouldn't cheat

[Minahh]

Yep sure there needs to be trust, if you don't trust it's better to break up

[Luckycharms12]

Yes why be with them otherwise. I'm that good dinner. there only scraps.

[Slapmynuts]

You really have to or what is your relationship built off? The answer is trust!😉😁

[Hanrej]

No, but she's free to do so anyways ofcourse.

[shortster]

Depends on the person, the last person I dated, I would not.

[Anonymous]

Damn, u got a cute face😲😲this fuccboi deff doesn't wanna go up against u😦

[its_amelia_c]

If you don’t it’s a red flag 🚩

[Abdulwahh]

No lol the same reason the girl won't trust me being friends with other girls

[IslaTheWitch]

Sure. I also meet my friends.

[DryGermanGuy]

Of course and so does she. We are adults.

[linka_pat307]

Half willing and half not willing

[jahaims]

If you don't trust someone don't date them.

[SoJust]

Yes, I trust she can go

[Nifrayu]

Of course I would.

[Ironco]

Sure, why not.

[Guido]

Yes, I have total trust.

[jacob33131]

If I had a girlfriend I’d trust her.

[Lowiu]

Yes sure I would

[NathanDavis]

always did

[mandyfire98]

Sure I would

[Anonymous]

Trust but be very anxious

[riverrat3]

If you cannot trust them, why be with them

[BigBootyKay]

Yes I would

[laly520]

yes totally

[Anonymous]

She's gonna get plowed by a Chad.

[Inge96]

Yes absolutely

[LavLavLuv]

Of course

[Notherndude84]

Yes I do

[tanya_s21]

Yea why not

[meh51]

Yeah