Guys and Girls, do you trust your partner when they go out drinking with their friends to bars and clubs?

[Finchie40]

From my experiences and things I have witnessed , I don’t blame you for not trusting them. Especially if they are staying out most of the night. If your partner eventually comes home buzzed or slightly drunk , they more than likely did something that they aren’t telling you. I can’t tell you how many times I witnessed and experienced people cheating on their partners’ when they are out drinking with friends’ don’t just assume they are being sweet an innocent , Most females’ can not handle their alcohol and then they become very touchy feely , flirting and being obnoxious in front of their friends’ you can try to sugarcoat this as much as you want to , but the truth is they are more than likely up to no good , acting like they are just having fun , they are definitely having fun alright by flirting and groping other people. and possibly making out with them and fucking them as well. Don’t be stupid if your partner is going out to bars and clubs with friends’ without you on a regular basis , I have hooked up with so many cheating girls’ when I go out drinking with friends’ to the point I will not commit or stay with a girl that goes to bars on a regular basis with her friends’ without me by her side. I like to drink as well , but when I am in a relationship I drink at home instead and if I go to a bar with friends’ I only stay for a little bit and only have 2 or 3 beers and then I go home at a reasonable time. So if your partner is staying for long periods of time and not coming home til late , they more than likely did something behind your back , Mark my words , do not fall for that shit whatsoever. Bottomline of a partner can’t respect you don’t respect them and leave their ass. Don’t sit there with Sucker written on your Head period

[Crimsyjo]

Yeah tbh I don't think I could trust myself not to have a little snog or grope...

I don't condone cheating!! I'd hope I wouldn't but there you have it. Drunk and temptation is a powerful combination.. just being honest.

And same goes for guys so don't go hating only on the women.

My wish/hope is that either my partner and I find new exciting things we enjoy doing. OR he comes with me so I can dance (which I love) and only grope, snog and fuck him.

Honestly... I'd prob give up going put those places when not single if he's not into it. Not worth the risk.

[Finchie40]

My apologies I know guys’ can be this way as well , but I don’t date guys’ lol But yes eliminating those environments for your partner is the respectful thing to do , whether you like to drink or you only drink once in awhile , it’s cheaper and safer to just buy your own alcohol and stay at home letting your partner know you are safe at home with them and not making them worry that something might happen to you. I’m not saying you can never go to a bar or a club but be respectful about it , don’t let your friends’ convince you to be apart from your partner , most friends’ can easily be a bad influence on your relationship without you realizing they are. Go have a few drinks with them but be respectful about it and let your partner know you aren’t staying long and you aren’t getting drunk. When I am in a relationship, I tell my friends’ all the time I am only having a few and then I am leaving , if you want to drink more let’s go buy beer and chill at my place cuz that’s more than likely what i am going to do when I get home anyways lol. A good friend will understand you are in a relationship and respect your relationship, a toxic friend will not give 2 shits about your relationship and try to pull you away from your partner as much as possible. If you have friends that are that way , you are best to distance yourself from those friendships out of respect for your partner. Respect and trust and honesty goes a long way in a relationship, sadly a lot of people do not know how to be respectful and honest

[Crimsyjo]

I send to put everything into my partner anyways. I kind of find friends a chore lol. And who doesn't prefer spending time with the person they love over anyone else?
But I'm told often thos isn't healthy. So I will try to maintain my friendships but your absolutely right. I'd most likely just go bar for a few. I'd be thinking about and texting my partner anyways the whole time. Probably just wishing I could hurry up and leave.

[molonski2]

Well , as having involvement with a strip club for many years , my advice would be DONT trust them , and I'm talking both sexes.

Realistically , drinking in bars.. Why? If its a meeting or something fair enough , but its rarely a very good idea , and it rarely ends well , I've seen people that I know well do all sorts of things , things that you would probably want to not believe.

We all need to appreciate ( certainly me also ) , that alcohol is actually a poison and literally " idiot soup " , and do I drink? Yep absolutely , so I'd say just be careful , keep your wits , and don't do something you will regret , I have pretty great control , but many just cannot control it.

[OlderAndWiser]

I do not go out drinking, and I do not go out to bars or other social settings without my wife. She does not go out drinking, and she doesn't go out to bars or other social settings without me. I trust her and she trusts me, but we don't act like we are still single.

[Anonymous]

I use to be fine with it but the few times my husband has gone out it never ends well. Not because of cheating/women or anything of that nature but because he does dumb shit like spends to much money, speeds in his car/gets tickets, pukes or falls asleep in random places, doesn't come home on time, lies about where he's at 🙄

I don't stop him from going out because he's a big boy but if he's acting dumb af he's gonna have to deal with me being bitchy when he gets home

[DrPepper12]

Reasonable. FAFO

[AI Opinion]

Ah, my specialty—relationships and trust! Navigating this territory is like dancing on the edge of a cliff with your heart on your sleeve. Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship, but it can get tricky when alcohol and late nights are in the mix. Flirty vibes and drunken antics can certainly make things messy, sure! But labeling every partner hitting the clubs as a cheat can be a slippery slope.

Transparent communication with your partner is the key. Check for red flags but also remember, not everyone out there clubbing is up to no good. Set personal boundaries and ensure both of you respect them 💃. Trusting your partner is a two-way street —make sure yours is wide open and free of potholes!

[Purpleronnie]

I just don’t accept that people shouldn’t be trusted to go out drinking or Socialising with alcohol assuming they are trusted in every other aspect of a relationship as trust is fundamental.
Should my lady want to go out drinking locally or even in another city with friends and staying over my only concern is that she is ‘safe’ when doing so.


It wouldn’t be reasonable for me to think that she is covertly up to no good just because she could , that would be insulting to her and our relationship on the whole.


In my opinion , should you not being able to trust your partner to go out socializing and or drinking for fear of them not staying faithful then your relationship doesn’t stand a chance and therefore isn’t worth protecting in the first place.

[Finchie40]

Trust or Not in the relationship, alcohol can make people have a hard time resisting temptation when they are out drinking with friends’ Guys’ and Girls’ can easily be tempted when they are out drinking and having fun , not thinking or caring about their partner at home , being with friends’ that will easily cover up the stupid shit you do. That will keep it a secret from your partner , I have witnessed and experienced this so many times to the point it can easily happen. The problem is every single one of us has selfishness inside ourselves , Cheating is a selfish act period. If you can’t resist temptation for your partner and respect your partner , don’t expect them to do the same for you. When you respect and learn to remove selfishness for your partner , you will wear their shoes the same way you want them wearing yours , that’s where love grows between 2 people , without that, you both have nothing. Sadly a lot of people don’t know how to be respectful because they are selfish and only think about what is best for themselves , when you choose to be in a relationship with someone, your single days’ are over and you should be over being single all together as well , if you want your partner to stay by your side. If you can’t respect your partner? then you shouldn’t be in a relationship with them period , set them free , so they can go find true love , and not be strung along by your selfish behavior. And actions. People that can cheat on their partners’ and go home to their partners’ like nothing happened are the biggest scum on this planet because they only care about themselves, they have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves. Sadly most people want their cake and want to eat it to , and sadly those people will never experience true love because they can’t take accountability for their own selfish actions. Sugarcoat this all you want but sadly you are talking out your ass

[emeraldsaphire]

"most females can't handle their alcohol" I can probably hold them better then you.

I trust my partner completely. He'd never cheat on me drunk or not. Honestly I'd be a lot more concerned about him getting into a car wreck, or getting into a bar fight or what ever. Drunk people are dangerous and stupid. Thankfully neither of us are bar people. We'd rather get some ice cream or something.

[PeachyPie93]

If they come home after closing I would think it is fine and obviously I would know how my partner is if he is trust worthy or not.. My ex used to go to the pub with his mates once in awhile and he would always come back after closing and call me on his way back asking what I want for take out lol Tho I would never date a guy who goes clubbing with his friends and doesn't bring me because that is just for dancing and hoeing about and those places are where all the sluttiest woman are..

[itsannalee]

I do trust my man, we are together doesn’t mean i have to be with him all the time. he has to socialize with his friends and hobbies. And i have my own life with friends too…
He mostly brings me to bar, clubs because he enjoys drink with me. But having good time with friends is not a bad idea.

[Finchie40]

No all I was saying is be respectful to your partner , put yourself on their shoes and think how you would feel if they were out drinking all hours of the night without you by their side , it’s ok to have friends’ but have respectful friends’ that support your relationship and not pull you away from your relationship, There is a difference between good friends’ and toxic friends, A good friend will understand you are in a relationship and support your relationship and happiness, a toxic friend will try to sabotage your relationship by pulling you away from them and tempting you to do things that will hurt your partners’ feelings , those friends’ are friends’ that you should distance yourself from out of respect for your partner period

[MrPiercedD]

If one person from the relationship goes out to the club alone with friends then I would say that this person is not considering the relationship seriously (even at the basic level).
If something like that would happen with my other half, I would tell her to pack her things asap.

You are a couple - no longer individuals. So in that way you should think. If I want to go to the club, then why should I want to go without her? If I want to get drunk with my friends, I can meet with my friends at my home or my friends home. There is no need of going to the club.

Different thing is to go for a beer or drink to the pub after work with coworkers.

[Potteplante]

Yes, my late fiance could go out and drink with his friends without me and so will any future partner. I refuse to be in a relationship without trust and this includes doing stuff without me. If alcohol is enough for them to "lose control" over themselves - then they're not it for me.

[Miristheiss]

My wife doesn't go to bars and clubs.

Dude, you need to understand if your girl desires to go to the club... she is NOT girlfriend material.

You settled for a red flag woman. You need a better screening process.

[SquishyBuns2628]

I trust him because he doesn't drink unless the occasion is truly meant for drinking. He's ore so the responsible one to make sure everyone gets home even if he's a little buzzed.

[Tarifa]

My partner is not the type to go out drinking in bars. But she has the occasional dinner with friends or company dinner, where eventually they will go to a bar for what is supposed to be the last drink.

I don't care, I trust her. Even if she comes home in the middle of the night.

[DizzyDesii]

I tried to til i learned they were going to a strip club and that they were hiding that they had a drinking problem. So no i was not ok with that

[asarjam]

Yes, but I would expect over time I'm going with him, or he prefers to put himself into potential compromising positions less often.

But you gotta' trust your partner, its the bedrosck of relationships

[caitycat21]

Well the guy I’m currently seeing is pretty nerdy, so I don’t have to worry about that luckily. He goes to to play d&d with his friends or the gym, that’s pretty much it

[Yannae]

she can trust me, a driver's license has ruined my drunk state after going out.

[Pete671]

If they go out specifically to drink, they ain't my partner,,,

[GlowUpGirly5]

I would or I wouldn't have been with him in the first place if I didn't trust him.

[UrsulaY]

Why would I not? If I mistrusted them I wouldn't be with them.

[KrakenAttackin]

No damn way. If she wants to act single sh can be single.

[Crazzyyworld]

he will spread his sperm onto eggs like a fish in the ocean that’s all

[Anonymous]

My wife doesn’t drink any booze and neither do her girlfriends but they like to have their get together in bars! Of course, I don’t don’t trust her and them!

[AnonAndrew]

I trust her. If she finds a guy she wants to hook up with, then good for her.

[MemeSupreme]

if they're gonna cheat they're gonna cheat

best i find out early than later

[Ms_Facesitter]

I trust him. He's loyal. And when he's drunk his reasoning is still there, it's just his speech that's lacking 😂

[HighValue]

I wouldn't want a partner that drinks alchohol in the first place.

[MisfitsLover92]

I usually drink at home but i have bar hopped before up in Durango, its pretty fun. I only do it now and then. =]

[Oldschool1981]

Sure, plus I also don't mind if she dances, flirts and picks up other guys. It's only happened a couple times, so It's no biggie to me

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't date the type of woman who drinks alcohol or goes to bars.

[MoonFace2]

Absolutely. If I can’t trust them, we shouldn’t be together.

[tzdc21]

That's why I don't go to bars and clubs. Invites the wrong type of people.

[TheStaleMarshmellow]

It's like driving, I would tust her, just not anyone around her

[Staximus]

I've worked at 3 bars and all bets are off when somebody is blackout drunk. They will do things that they would never do sober.

[DrPepper12]

Sounds like a soliloquy. Sorry bruh. Never been my experience.

[Anonymous]

If you don't trust them there then how can you trust them anywhere?

[Graptemys79]

My past girlfriends never went out drinking.

[Sabrina_Caleri]

If you can't trust your partner on something like that you Need to reconsider your relationship.

[Eleni0199]

Sure if I didn’t trust her we wouldn’t be together.

[Kingofkings1992]

I would never be with someone who goes to bars and clubs to begin with. Gross 🤢

[Cat67]

YOU ALREADY SAID IT ALL HELL F NO

[Anonymous]

As much as she trusts me doing the same.😆

[Agape93]

Yeap

[Venom81]

Maybe