Do you feel insecure when your partner goes to the pub with their friends?

[Anonymous]

Not talking about friends , but insecure about other people at pub meeting em and things that happen when drunk

[Juicyred921]

Tbh. I feel insecure all the time. When he out with his friends or even when he goes out with me. My boyfriend is , in my opinion, very attractive. I told him he could have definitely been a model. Even when my mom first met him, she thought he was hot! But my boyfriend always reminds me that he loves me and the way I look doesn’t matter to him. I do trust him. But my ex cheated on me so many times that’s it really hard to fully trust anyone. So unfortunately, there’s always gonna be this little nugget of doubt in my head. I just try not to let it get to me or interfere with our relationship. Cause I know my boyfriend is crazy in love with me.

[Simslover92]

No. I've met all his friends at the bar and their cool people who wouldn't let him ever cheat on me. Their that type of friends. So I'm cool with him going to the bar with friends and meeting new people because his friends would put him in check in a heartbeat if he got wild but I know he would never do that.

[lightbulb27]

she can go out as she wants, she's respectful and doesn't drink.

you are talking about shame, fear and in general... insecurity. this is why I tell people to stay away from drugs and women that lack sufficient values to hold boundaries.

only viable drug is coffee or tea. take your pick.

[DizzyAster2]

Uncomfortable because lots of creeps do things to women like spoke their drinks.

Better to drink at home for both of us, cheaper too.

[Honeysuckle12345]

Nope.

People feel insecure about such situations because their partner has given them reasons to be. The "partner", and I use that term loosely about westerners as bluntly compared to other countries and cultures most of you'd not understand how to be loyal if your lives literally depended upon it, has to display unfaithful traits such as flirting with others, eyeing others, etc.

I'm not westerner thank the heavens 🙏

[ariadneR]

I'm a little insecure but I trust him. He doesn't really drink but if he decides to, good for him.

he's allowed to be his own person and sometimes that's without me.

[Al_Musafir]

Well I wouldn't be with someone who drinks or free mixes with people of opposite gender let alone being okay with them going to a place like pub.

[exitseven]

I do not think insecure is the right word. I would be a little concerned. I would give her the benefit of the doubt until I have a reason not to.

[Stacey55666]

My grandma once told me that she's not afraid of the dark, but she's afraid of what's IN the dark.

It's the same with pubs. lol

[sheikalana]

Not at all. My husband keeps updating me whenever he goes out with his friends.

[serious_miss419]

He shouldn’t be out at a the bars if he’s in a relationship. There’s other ways to go out with friends and be an adult

[Ms_Facesitter]

Not at all. He is a good looking man but before we were dating I've seen him being visibly upset or turned off by girls drunk behavior at the club.

[Anonymous]

No, that would be daft. You could only feel like that if you were cripplingly insecure and didn't trust them.

[DextroShade]

Girls nights out are completely unacceptable, if she wants to do that she can single.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but not for the reason you think. She's an alcoholic.

[Nikki1989]

I have no problem with that at all.

[LavLavLuv]

Nope