Guys, can you trust your friends when it comes to your woman?

Question

Can you trust them that they won't try and get it on with your woman behind your back?

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

my best and closest friends are mostly girls, some even are my ex-girlfriends as well, and one is a lesbian, another is bisexual... but yes, I have always trusted them and there has never been an issue before

my best friends that are dudes, same... I know them well and for long, I have trusted them more than my own life, so no worries there either, never been an issue before

as for the rest of my less close friends and some acquaintances... especially with some acquaintances, I already know I should keep an eye on them... because they really are missing a few marbles lmfao, but is not a worry at all either, because after all
I have always trusted my partners first and 1000% because I do know them very well, otherwise we would not be together at all

serious · Accepted Answer

I don't have any friends and say even if I did then I wouldn't trust them. I would trust my own judgement and instincts rather. 100%

I have always been single and wish to remain single for life but just hypothetically if I had a woman also then the moment I thought something is not right then immediately I will end things with her. There will no going back on that decision.

How I will come to know is I will be highly observant and alert regarding the behavior of my acquaintances and also I will notice and observe the woman's behavior and that is enough for me to take a decision. Once a decision then there is no undoing it. Simple.

I suppose this answers your question.

lightbulb27 · Answer

I have few anymore. I’d trust them because none take drugs and most are married.

That said… anyone can fail and someone who is happy joyful can selfishly mis perceive another’s energy. I think this why married people are sometimes more attractive.

My wife went through something like this in past and so is diligent about drawing boundaries with men. I’m conscious because I know females can try to steal a man…. They often spot a target when relationships are difficult. Ours is in a good place. It’s easy for me to deter women…I just dress poorly and drive a beat up car… that keeps them away.

DaveJord · Answer

Nope, I know all my friends and I know for fact that if I am dating a women, then she is hot and sexy and any of my friends would jump to get with her if they had the chance.

I got some really good friends they would not date her behind my back, they would bang her then tell me that she bangs other guys because she cheated on me with one of them. I would not be anger with them, because I would happy that they told me and that they did what some other ass hole would of done but I never would of known about it. Of course the women is done after that, once we both banged her and we know she's a cheating slut its over.

This actually how I got into my first threesome.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

As someone who has ben on the receiving end of that scenario when I was in my late teens, I don't answer this lightly.
There will always be an element of distrust for me because of what happened, and indeed HOW it happened, but I trust the woman I'm with implicitly. At the end of it all, she is the only one I need to trust.

MCheetah · Answer

When it comes to my "woman."

888theGreat · Answer

Friends, how many of us have them , Friends

ohshee · Answer

No not my friends but I can trust the girls I have gone with  Well let me change that yes with some of my friends

LiamSawyer · Answer

On the whole I would say yes, but it never hurts to be alert and to know your girl well enough to trust her.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely not! I trust her. And if I can't trust her then it's time to end the relationship.
I don't want to send the wrong message. I do trust my friends. But ANY of them are capable of trying to sleep with her. I don't think any of them would. But as I said this is why I only concern myself with her loyalty.

KeithLane · Answer

Bro Code? Think again, if she is hot they are going to be all over her. A man just can't help it. If you got a good thing you best be on top of your game or someone is moving in friend or not.

Bambalicious · Answer

It takes two to tango. Is she looking for a dance partner?

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

See, that's the trick.. I don't have friends

OldWorldOrder · Answer

Lol The REAL question is, "Can you trust your WOMAN when it comes to your friends?" Usually, the answer is "No."

20yearsolder · Answer

Absolutely, if I couldn't trust them with my woman and they wouldn't be my friend

hafinjun · Answer

I think if your in a telation ship with this woman and you can't trust your friends to be respectful, you have the wrong friends, maybe the wrong lady too.

msc545 · Answer

You have it backwards. I don't trust women when it comes to ANY men.

Anonymous · Answer

Close friends yes of course. Not to mention any girlfriend I had wouldn’t be attracted to them anyways. I only have about 4-5 close guy friends. Zero close girl friends.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I'd say it's been more of a question of trusting her because I know my buds are gonna try to hit it.

lofii · Answer

The only thing I out my trust in is this money💵 People always fold 💯

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

Yes but Doesn’t matter if I trust my girlfriend otherwise she’s not my girlfriend.

Anonymous · Answer

I can trust my two closet friends sure. My other guy friend probably not.

spartan55 · Answer

Of course. I don't associate with shitheads.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I trust all my friends. All 4 of them.

Likes2drive · Answer

If they are good friends yes

motownplayer2000 · Answer

I don’t trust anyone much.. so it would take a lot

rebeliouse · Answer

yes totally trust them

Massageman · Answer

Certainly.

Slim57 · Answer

I mean yeah I never have to think of that

Iron_Man · Answer

No thanks

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Of course I could

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