Girlfriend wants "to feel other peoples hands" on her?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend of 3 years has booked a massage for tomorrow (no big deal). I jokingly said are the ones I give you not good enough anymore and she said that she wants to be "teased differently, and feel someone else's hands" on her body. I was abit shocked. I think its a female masseuse this time but she's had them from males before and it's never bothered me until now. Am I over thinking this?

[devilish-cutie]

if she joked, its nothing serious, it was probably a joke to tease you

if she meant it seriously than id worry

[devilish-cutie]

but best is to ask her does she want to feel others touching her for real or was that just a joke, maybe she meant she wants proper massage by professional

[Asker]

@devilish-cutie I asked her if she was serious and she said yes, it's always been a turn on and she wishes she wouldn't stop when her hands get close to her boobs.
I asked her had she considered her sexuality and she said she doesn't wanna have sex with her and she only wants me but it's just abit of fun

[boggboss]

Inside of the situation with u joking are u sure she didn't respond with a joke

[Asker]

I'm 100% sure as we talked a lot about it after and she's told me she just wants to be with me but it's a turn on to have other people's hands on her in that way...

[boggboss]

Then if she explained this what are u asking

[boggboss]

She has let u know she is fine with being touched up by other people is that what u want from a long term partner

[Asker]

I'm asking if people think I'm over reacting. Yes I know it doesn't matter what other people think but I'm trying to get some perspective

[boggboss]

I think its cheating and wpuldnt stay with a partner that needed to be aroused by strangers