When the girl you like let's you touch her?

[Anonymous]

I like to make it very obvious that I like a girl, that way I can tell, with some certainty, whether she likes me back.

I will touch her on her thigh as often as a I can, tease her, playfull hit her, look at her a lot, etc...

Do you think, as a girl, you'd know whether a guy likes you? How would you react to the things I say above if: 1) you liked me back and 2) if you didn't like me back?

[Charcicci]

A guy I know does all those things to me and since I like him I let him, and that showed him I didn't mind him being close to him, and about a week ago we kissed. :)
If I didn't like the guy and he touched me on my thigh, I would pull myself back from him to show that I'm not comfortable with him doing that.

[Asker]

During one of the seminars we kept looking at eachother, even when we weren't speaking. When we looked at each other it was always for 3-4 seconds and with a smile from both... I felt the chemistry from my side.

[Charcicci]

Sounds like she likes you too :) Especially if she reacts possitively on you touching her.

[Asker]

Do you think the fact that she's 18 and I'm 21 is weird?

[Charcicci]

No not at all. I'm 19 and the guy I like is 27. Didn't know that until I already liked him, and age is really just a number if the person is the right on.
It's only 3 years in your case. :)

[Anonymous]

have heard of this before , that a quick touch test can determine how comfortable she is with you or not. you just have to make sure she's ready to be touched and it doesn't come across as way too soon

[Asker]

Well she didn't move away when I touched her thigh, and she hasn't be acting any differently with me sine.

I also play hit her and she play hit back saying "You better not do that, you'll break your hand" in a teasing sort of way.