If you became pregnant, what would you do?

[Simslover92]

And guys, if your friends with benefits, girlfriend or wife became pregnant what would you do?

I'm not sure what I would do. Apart of me would want to keep the baby but me and my boyfriend can't afford it right now.

My heart says keep it but my mind is saying abort the baby if I ever became pregnant now.

[JacobJordan]

My wife has been pregnant 3 times and I have been with her every step of the way. Encouraging her and supporting her. I brought her to any and all appointments we had to go to. I made sure she was comfortable and fed. Made sure she didn't eat food that was bad for the baby.

Wife response: all of the above and more actually. In later staves when I hard trouble getting out of bed he would pick me up and carry me to the restroom and then carry me back to bed. He would lift the baby to relieve some of the weight and hold it which feels absolutely amazing. He would put my shoes on because it is difficult to bend over. He would pick up anything and everything. He massaged cocoa butter into my abdomen to help reduce any stretch marks. And many more things.

[Simslover92]

Aww that's so sweet. I would want that but at the right time.

[Mansearching]

I can't afford the child support myself. I would say keep it and I would take care of my responsibilities to the child.

In your case, its your decision, your body.

Abortion was not invented to be a form of birth control. That's what it ended up being. But its suppose to be for rape, incest and if life of mother is in jeopardy.

[Simslover92]

Yes thats true. That's why I'm so torn on the matter because I'm more pro life than pro choice. But at the same time I can't afford a kid right now. That would be a life I wouldn't want for a child to grow up poor like I did.

[Mansearching]

Like I said. Your choice. We can't make that decision for you.

[Simslover92]

That's true. Let's hope that it doesn't come to that. Me and my boyfriend have been pretty safe up until now and we plan on continuing to be safe.

[Mansearching]

Without any birth control its bound to happen.

[Simslover92]

When we're ready for that it will happen but not before.

[Mansearching]

Better be 100% sure. Some sort of birth control.
Example... If I was your boyfriend. I'd wear a condom if you don't want to get on the pill or IUD or shot or something. That'll protect both of us.
I know he doesn't like it but you're taking a risk.

[Mansearching]

Then if its up you getting pregnant. Then condoms not needed until the birth. End of example.

[Simslover92]

Yeah we will continue to use condoms to my chagrin. It's the only way to be safe without bc.

[Anonymous]

I would keep my baby and try my best to provide for them. I'm not someone who would get an abortion personally, and I wouldn't want to give them up for adoption knowing they're being taken care of by some stranger while I'm still around on this planet. However, I would only do it as a last resort if I couldn't provide for them.

[Simslover92]

Understandable. I'm of two minds on the matter and feel that way but I also wouldn't want to raise a child when I'm broke and damn near poor. It's just no life for a child to grow up in. But I also would hate to get an abortion because I don't really believe in getting those so I'm torn.

[Apple1996]

I'd keep it because i want more kids. I'd personally never abort. When I got pregnant as a teen with my oldest son I was in the worst spot financially, in my relationship and just in life but I still made things work enough to give him a good life.

[Simslover92]

That's great that everything worked out!

[AviatorTom]

If I became pregnant, I'd call up Guinness... first pregnant human male in history.

If my SO became pregnant, I'd do the same thing... a post-menopausal woman getting pregnant is something for the record books.

Note: both me and my SO are in our 50s. We each had kids... years ago.

[Simslover92]

Lol indeed that would be a miraculous or immaculate conception lol

[Sonorous]

Well I tend to be adaptable so I'd probably find a way to cope & move forward. And I'd really hunker down & attempt to try to rake in as much money as I could. So that I could prevent them both from suffering more than they had to.

[Simslover92]

Aww that's so noble of you.

[Sonorous]

Oh I'd mainly be doing it so I wouldn't have to be around the kid as much.

[Simslover92]

Oh well damn lol

[Sonorous]

I'd be like if Santa was their father tho! Kids love santa even though he only shows up once a year

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

First, I’d take all the precautions to not get pregnant, but if I still did, I’d keep it.

[Simslover92]

Oh ok.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s just me, because I have always wanted children and my mom has promised she will help me raise them.

But it’s your body and I support your decision to decide what to do with it.

It’s just, I’d keep it.

[Angxl3120]

I would have to choose abortion in the initial stage itself, its better to not give the baby a bad poor childhood as im not financially stable rn and i need to complete my college. Ill be guilty my whole life for it, but I feel that was the best thing to do

[Simslover92]

I completely understand. My mind is definitely thinking abortion as well for the same reason.

[TaureanBull81]

If I got a future girlfriend or friends with benefits pregnant 🤰 I'd take responsibility for it as we both know the pregnancy risks when going bareback 😉

[Simslover92]

That's nice of you. I would hope my boyfriend would do the same.

[TaureanBull81]

Thank you 😊

[laurieluvsit]

I was forever paranoid about that until last month when I got sterilized.

It is such a big relief.

I recommend it for everyone.

It is not hard to adopt if you want to start a family.

[Simslover92]

I would do that and I probably will adopt one day but I want children of my own first.

[laurieluvsit]

That's nice.

No worry about getting pregnant then :)

[Holsen]

You should probably abort it;think about the baby;the baby can’t be asked if it wants to be born or not and furthermore if you were to give birth at least you would have it as a very big debt towards it to at least be able to make its life as peaceful as it can be but since you say you can’t afford it, it would just put the stress on the baby and it would be totally unfair for it!!

[Simslover92]

That's very true. You're right. I probably would go in the direction of abortion.

[Anonymous]

right now i think i would get an abortion.. i'm too young to have kids. i'm also single and i dont want to be a single mom, plus i still depend on my parents for everything and am a student. my family all have full time jobs, so there's no one to take care of the kids anyways

[Simslover92]

Understandable. That would be a lot to deal with.

[Anonymous]

That's a tough situation to navigate. It's important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings and concerns. Ultimately, the decision is personal and should be made together, considering both emotional and practical aspects.

[Simslover92]

I 100% agree

[TonyMetal___86]

Personally, there will be no women becoming pregnant because of me because i'll only make love to my future housewife or the girl whom i'm going to marry for sure...

In case i was married and my wife got pregnant, there will be a celebration and i'll invite the close people to us so we celebrate this beautiful news and my wife will start receiving kisses on her womb everynight 😄

[Simslover92]

Oh ok nice!

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks

[EmmaMary]

As this would be a planned pregnancy, I would naturally carry it for nine months, and then give birth to hopefully a healthy and much precious baby.

[Simslover92]

Oh ok. So you are trying to get pregnant?

[EmmaMary]

@Simslover92

At present we already have our two planned children, and do not foresee having any more.

[Simslover92]

Oh ok

[Anonymous]

Well it would have to be immaculate conception because I would have no clue how. But let’s say I did, I would freak out because I am not pushing a baby out. In my future when I wanted to have kids I was hoping to do a c section or at the very least have an epidural or do a water birth. So I would want to have those options available to me

[Simslover92]

Oh ok. You're a virgin? Why would it be immaculate?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I’m a virgin

[Simslover92]

Oh ok. Good for you!

[Billlewis]

That's actually one of my long term goals -- to be in a relationship with a woman who has gotten pregnant by another guy, and then assume all legal and financial responsibility for her new baby, and raise her child as my own.

[Simslover92]

Haha no surprise there Bill! That's actually very honorable of you to do. Hope that works out for you!

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, thank you very much. My rationale is that this way, she can fulfill her maternal instincts while still keeping me celibate and pussy free throughout the duration of our relationship.

[Agape93]

Abort as always. But nowadays, I'd be suing my doctor too.

[Simslover92]

Why would you be suing your doctor?

[Agape93]

A few years ago I got a partial hysterectomy, so I should be incapable of getting pregnant. So if they fucked up, I'm suing.

[Simslover92]

Oh yeah, I would definitely sue too if I had gotten that and still somehow ended up pregnant.

[Agape93]

Exactly

[HelpfulWoman]

I would abort. I got 2 I don't need or want any more.

-unless you are 10,00000+ % certain on keeping a baby, don't.

[Simslover92]

Okay

[SotiCoto]

Was gonna say that would be a bit of an achievement since I don't have the equipment for it.

In any case, I've already generated one daughter. Wouldn't want to risk any more.

[Simslover92]

Oh so you got a vasectomy?

[SotiCoto]

No. I got a divorce.

[Simslover92]

Oh...

[LiamJHayden]

I would disappear because I am congenitally sterile and her being pregnant would mean she'd been cheating.

[Simslover92]

Damn yep that would definitely mean it's time to hit the road.

[LiamJHayden]

To date have not had that happen, thankfully.

[Simslover92]

Yes definitely thank goodness! That would be awful if that happened.

[Anonymous]

We don't believe in abortion so I'd have to have it.

[Simslover92]

Oh ok. Understandable!

[rebeliouse]

id be fuck off rich as I would be the first male on the planet to get pregnant without having any of the necessary bits :D id be a unique mirricel of science :D

[Simslover92]

Lol indeed you would

[rebeliouse]

@Simslover92
do u fancy trying to make me pregnant ill cut you into the richers :D

[Simslover92]

Lol if that were possible and I wasn't in a relationship I sure would

[rebeliouse]

sweet :D

[Jennz6]

I would hope that the baby daddy would support me

[Simslover92]

I would hope so too!

[exitseven]

Been there. done that.

[Simslover92]

What did you do?

[exitseven]

I had 3 kids. They were all unplanned pregnancies.

[Simslover92]

Yikes. Sorry.

[exitseven]

We wanted it that way. It all worked out.

[Simslover92]

Oh ok.

[collie22]

If that happened I'd name her Tesa

[Simslover92]

Aww that's a beautiful name!

[collie22]

Yes 😊

[Kelly6]

I would be happy and keep the baby

[Simslover92]

That's great! I hope that happens for you!

[Kelly6]

Thanks

[Simslover92]

You're welcome!

[CubaPirate]

Pray to Jesus because I've had a vasectomy

[Simslover92]

Lol yes indeed Pray to Jesus if that happened.

[JohnK123]

Keep it

[Simslover92]

If it's now I don't know about that