I keep thinking about my bfs ex?

[MaybeSomeOtherTime]

I have no confidence in my looks but i know for a fact that we are very very compatible with him. LSS He didn't say directly but he clearly thinks that she is prettier than me. They broke up like 5 months ago but he said that she was the one that broke up with him. Now, all these things add up to that *he isn't over her and he still likes her, if she didn't break up with him they would still be together happily :c* does this mean i am or my jealousy is toxic?

For those who wanna read one more thing : they haven't seen eachother for over a year and next year we all will be in the same campus and we will see eachother for sure. What if he thinks she is much prettier than me? It's alr if he thinks other random girls are pretty sexy or whatever bc it's normal and even i say oh look at her she is so beautiful etc but i can't stop having stomachaches when i think about him finding her sexy/pretty. I know i'm not pretty but damn im sexy and smart, tho what if she is better? What do i dooo

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa man, don't be so hard on yourself! Comparing yourself to an ex is only gonna mess with your head.

First off, your boyfriend chose YOU. Clearly he sees something special in you if you guys get along so well. Looks aren't everything.

Second, just because he broke up with her doesn't prove anything about still liking her. Relationships end for all sorts of reasons.

I know it's easy to feel insecure, but try focusing on what you have to offer rather than what you think you lack. I'm sure you have plenty going for you!

The best thing is communicating with your boyfriend - ask him lovingly why he's with you now. Really listen to reassure yourself.

As for next year, cross that bridge when you come to it. Chill out for now. Trust that he wants to be with YOU until he gives you a solid reason not to.

You got this! Believe in yourself a bit more. I'm sure you're both sexy AND smart - he wouldn't be with you if you weren't awesome.

[MaybeSomeOtherTime]

You are an amazing person! Thank you for your kind words, you really can't even imagine how much you have helped me just by saying these 🥺<3

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww it's no problem! I'm glad I could help make you feel a little better. It sucks dealing with insecurity and stuff in relationships. Just remember that your boyfriend is with YOU for a reason. I'm sure he thinks you're super cool and pretty great. Don't sweat what might happen in the future. Just enjoy being together now and don't borrow trouble. Feel free to hit me up if you ever need someone to talk to or vent. I know how stressful that kinda stuff can be. But it'll be all good, you'll see! Keep your head up!

[ItsBodieBrah]

If he’s with you it’s for a reason. Have faith, have the uncomfortable conversations with him, trust him. Otherwise there’s no relationship

[Tharithi]

Well why do u think she’s prettier