He is planning for marriage?

[Haddog]

The guy I was dating and over time I develop feelings to him and for me not deep yet, since I don't barely know him well---yet he know me so much. So over the years we become in situationship for years. And for the past days I just eavesdrop while he is talking to his friend personally wanting about marriage. But before that he wants me to finish college, before marriage he says.

In my thought he doesn't court yet --since for me he get it that it's not the time to be his boyfriend since I was young and our gap is 3 yrs-- and I have strict parents. So in my part is that he will not court me when I finish college, but for me he will lead me to marry him. So it bugged me.

Please comment for further things thank you.

[RoseySarah]

Well what is your situation?

Loving together or just meet up very regularly?

Guys get feelings and if he hangs out with you or is with you alone he might consider that courting you!

Always be careful the guy knows it's a date or not a date!

Most guys assume anything with a girl is a date.

He might be dating you in his mind but can't officially court you till after! Thinking your a sure fire going to marry him.

Tell him he has to date and court you officially after college now it's just being friends!

Good luckk

[Haddog]

Just meet up--updates yet don't have deep conversation to understand ourselves to each other

[RoseySarah]

Then he is just feeling it's deep and a big connection.
You feel he is not being deep and not that connected.

Either talk with him cause committing is a need in relationships or just drag him along as a lot of people do letting him think it's a deep connected relationship

[SixFootSexy]

Funny how women ask questions like these to complete strangers, hoping from a couple feelings and amorphous context to do some mind-reading on their lover. When you know, you could just ask him what his plans are... If you're too scared to ask him what he sees you as in your future, maybe your relationship isn't as deep as you think.