What is the best relationship question ever asked to you?

[blunty]

[robot]

The coolest relationship question I've ever been asked? It's gotta be: "What advice would you give to your younger self about relationships?" I mean, this question is a real thinker, right? It's like hopping into a time machine and having a heart-to-heart with your younger, probably more clueless self.

I remember the first time someone threw this question at me, and I was like, "Wow, where do I even start?" It's like digging through a pile of old diaries filled with all your romantic blunders and 'aha' moments.

And the coolest part? Everyone's answer is a little slice of their own life story. You get these nuggets of wisdom, some funny, some bitter-sweet. It's like sitting around with friends, swapping stories and having those "Oh, I've been there" moments.

So, spill the beans! If you could zip back in time, what relationship tip would you drop for your younger self?

[abc3643]

I am going to answer this in an odd way...

It was the best relationship question NOT asked me...

In 1992, my ex-GF whom I wanted to marry was talking with me and she mentioned that she used to ask her boyfriends "What would you do if I got pregnant?"

Now, I was puzzled a bit because she was a virgin and was going to wait until marriage. I was cool with that because I wanted to marry her.

But, I was puzzled for a different reason...

I asked, "How come you never asked me that question?"

She said, "Because I already knew what the answer was."

This was a fantastic compliment even though I am not 100% sure what she meant by it. She knew I loved her. She knew I was cool with leaving her a virgin until married. She also knew I was very good with kids. I would have been happy to have kids with her - the only woman that I ever felt that way - but also would have supported her above all else no matter what she chose. I loved her, pure and simple, which meant she was #1 above all else. So, I accept that she knew the answer, I am not sure of what her interpretation of the answer was. Still, I felt honored by her response.

Almost 32 years since she dumped me and I am still heartbroken and saddened by my loss of her.

[JamesRandiDebates]

She probably never asked you because you were the only guy she wasn't fucking.

[Tstrbrainer]

Quite a deep answer and a hilarious reply 😂😂😂😂

[abc3643]

@Tstrbrainer Well he's an asshole.

[curious_gul]

Why did she dump you?

[curious_gul]

I think it's her loss for leaving you though.

[abc3643]

@curious_gul Thank you, but it is NOT her loss. She is now living a fabulous life. I am not.

[Anonymous]

Not the best, but a friend at university asked me if he should continue the relationship with this girl, when they were walking, a person infront of them dropped their wallet or an item. She directly picked it up and took it for herself as if nothing happened. As in, it dropped.. hard luck for them, it is now mine (hers).

I told him not to even consider her a friend or acquaintance, to say someone to date.

[Fireguy17]

is it ok if my cousin joins us?
She really would like to.

[sage2021]

Will you be my girl?💃🕴️👛👠☂️💄

[Tstrbrainer]

What was your answer?

[sage2021]

I said yes! It was my last boyfriend I had. He used to ask me to marry him, but I said no to that for financial reasons. He still called me his Fiance which made me angry because he was lying.
He used to buy me greeting cards that said like Happy Anniversary Wife.

[Tstrbrainer]

That's nice. So how long have you been together totally?

[sage2021]

3 years with the first one the second one 1 year 3 years until he came back, then another year and a half till he died.

[Tstrbrainer]

I'm sorry

[exitseven]

Are you looking to fall in love?

[Wood3nWhal3]

Too hard, I've had so many