Aside from my wife, who I met when I was 40, my best one was when I was 36. That lady, Petra, was 30.
I had a really nice apartment and she was renting a house. I kept my apartment but wound up living at her house for over a year.
She was an amazing kisser. She actually made my head spin. She was smart, sweet, vulnerable, sincere and loyal.
The first time we made love and I saw her unclothed, I found that her looks were my idea of the feminine ideal - 5'2"; an adorable face; flawless, milky skin; blue eyes; natural, bouncy-curly, light-blond hair; a body that I adored.
She turned out to be hypersexual and orgasmic. Her entire body was sensitive and erogenous, and she taught me how erogenous my own entire body was. But I also loved everything else about her and she loved me.
We went on vacations and did lots of fun things together. And the sex was beyond anything I had ever imagined, even though I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. She made me feel like a sexual god.
Unfortunately, we couldn't be life-long partners for reasons that I can't explain. We wound up separating but not because of cheating or anything mean. For months afterwards, I felt like I had been kicked in the guts and sometimes even felt nauseous. There were times when I would curl up and bawl. I've never felt such pain in my life.
She tried to get back together, but I knew we couldn't make it as a life-long couple and I couldn't survive another break of from her.
It took me a year to pull myself together and move on with life.
20 years after I last saw her and 15 years after I married my wife, Petra found me on Facebook. We even spoke a few times on the phone. I was so happy to reconnect, to hear her voice, know what she was up to, and to know that he was happy.
Five years after that, I read that she had died from a sudden medical problem at the age of 55.
I loved here with my heart and soul and will never forget her. There is a hole in my heart that will never heal. That time with her was the most blissful of my life. I will be forever grateful to her.
And that doesn't detract from how happy I am with my wife or how much I love her. She is the one I will spend the rest of my life with.
A girl named Anna. We used to talk about interesting things, and she always took an interest in what I had to say and what I was into. She was a great listener and I could talk to her about anything! I think girls are more into talking than guys, but this felt different. I felt more comfortable talking to her.
I could write poetry to her and she didn't pretend like she liked it, like a lot of other girls who just said 'That's nice' and that was it. She was interested. Back when I started writing novels, she pushed me to keep writing. I need someone like that to keep pushing me too. Sometimes I forget myself and give up easily.
We broke up because we have too much of a good thing. Our relationship seemed like a Disney romance. It was so perfect, we were both afraid it was too good to be true. That's the only reason we broke up.
I lost contact with her and haven't seen her in a long time. I still miss her. Now the only girls that want anything to do with me are drug addicts and users. I don't get it! That girl though, she was amazing!
Can't pick just one. My 20 year marriage was good, even though it ended in an amicable divorce. My 7 year relationship with my current SO is different... but also good.
The one I'm in now :). What makes it great is that we're both autistic and understand each other well and she's interesting to talk to the mental part to me is very important. And also she loves me so much. With a lot of women you're never sure if they really like you and usually they don't but they wanna make you think that they maybe do. But with her it's a Tsunami of love and there's no doubts, no signs to read no games just affection and caring. I know she loves me and wants nothing but the best for me and I trust her fully. That is something that I haven't had with anyone in a relationship that I had to build up from nothing. I'm not experienced since I took a lot of time to find myself and figure out life so I can't say if this is as good as it gets. But for now I'm very happy and I'm sure it's what's right for me :).
My last marriage was the best relationship that I was in. She was without a doubt, the best friend I ever could’ve hoped for. She’s only in her 40s so I don’t know if menopause and hormones just made her go insane but she became very mean after all the other abuse I’ve been through I just could not tolerate it anymore. I did not judge her for her past, and she did not judge me for mine. But having shared our past, we both realized how compatible we were sexually, and that part of our relationship was actually the best I could ever have felt for. There’s a lot of dirt I’m not sharing and it’s not relevant, but while it lasted nothing better was even possible
Was married for 7 1/2 years. Learned a lot on becoming a better person. Realized fatal flaws in me. Maybe that's why I'm feeling a certain way about myself after the D-Day (Divorce Day) which happened 5 years ago. I learned women aren't evil through ex-wife. I learned to be more secure with myself. Also learned to be assertive. I consider this whole phase as being potty trained or well trained. Sure, I still need to make sure i clean up around the house without being told to. When female friend came over, i cleaned up the bathroom and made sure the apartment didn't smell like cat urine. So, I learned to be a better person.
Probably my second relationship while it didn't work out it was by far the healthiest relationship I've had, we never fought or bickered we had good chemistry we worked our shit out properly. And when things ended it was a healthy breakup no hard feelings no toxicity or anything like that.
Probably the only good relationship I've ever had.
Sadly I tend to attract mostly attractive women who are almost always wracked with multiple problems from depression, self harm, major daddy issues, being spoiled brats, cold unfeeling ******* or just being your general crazy chick that stress's you out constantly. Lesbians, witches among others my dating history is interesting at least.
We met and talked all night, well past the sunrise. We ended sleeping together. For the next two years we would have amazing conversations and amazing sex. I'm a person who rarely feels comfortable but with her I felt like I knew her my entire life. I felt at ease. She lived her life and I lived my life. It was great, it was amazing. Technically it wasn't a relationship, I don't know what to call it. The connection we had wasn't friendship nor love but it's the happiest I've ever been with a woman.
Till her family and friends stuck their noses in and wrecked it, the one I had with a lady who was 17 years older. We just hit on all cylinders, but I guess being told "He almost young enough to be your son." messed with her too much.
I've had a few I would consider great, the best ones were we laughed so hard our stomachs hurted, inside jokes for days, and so much sex you had to store some in the deep freeze for later , I relish those times. We'd go out pretty regularly but nothing expensive it was more about enjoying each other's company.
She's very honest. Loves my nature of intelligence. Appreciates that don't have to be just another guy but one with honesty and respect. Treat her like a gentleman and in return want to know more about me 😏
My last relationship. We just became best friends. It was the best feeling ever and he’s my first love (even though I've been in relationships before him).
It wasn't technically a relationship, but she was head over heels for me and we had a lot of fun, she never said no and actively did things to make me happy; It's a shame I had to move ~7000km
None. The guys sneak out doing blow, lazy all the time playing video games and they go ape crazy if I want to do anything. I’ll gladly welcome another 13 years of being single thank you very kindly.
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