Boyfriend and I had sex the other day and he’s not communicating much ever since. What do I text him?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know what to say.

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Well I took the other advice and asked him if he’s ok cause he’s so quiet. He said that he’s working on a project for his work or school and his phone is on silent. Maybe that’s why he’s quiet?

[Wise4myage]

Was it the first time you had sex with him? Just ask him why he's not texting you.

[Asker]

He said he’s busy for the weekend with project and yes

[Wise4myage]

Saying he’s busy is BS.

[Asker]

So what the hell is his problem then?

[Asker]

Can I talk to you in message about this

[Wise4myage]

Yes you can.

[fuddly]

Well was it first time sex for you guys?
If not then maybe unrelated

[Asker]

Yess

[fuddly]

Some guys are bastards
And want only one thing
More he's got it
I suggest you ignore him, play hard to get. Don't reach out to him. Pretend like you don't care

[fuddly]

I meant... Now, he's got it

[Asker]

I just texted asking him if he’s ok cause he’s so quiet. He said he’s busy work a project for work and school.

[fuddly]

Like i said... ignore
Spend weekend with your mom
See if he comes around... project.. blah

[Asker]

Lol you think he’s lying? Hey if he has a “project” so be it. I’ll just lay back. That’s all he had to say. I don’t really like chasing men anyway.

[fuddly]

Cool

[Asker]

Yep. I like your idea to go hang with mama for the weekend. I’m not in contact with her but I could take the weekend to unwind without having to interact with him.

[Sparkie460]

Ask him what his thoughts are and if he's ok

[Asker]

He said he’s busy with schoolwork this weekend