How do you know if you’ve found the right man to have a future with?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I think

* You both respect each other and the relationship and are willing and able to put work, time and effort into the relationship and each other and make each other a priority.

* You’re both kind and supportive of each other and make a good team. So you encourage and lift each other up and work together and you work to solve issues rather than fight to get your way, prove a point or be right.

* You communicate well about anything. Can talk about everything without it judging each other or starting fights and you actually listen to what the other one is saying and make an effort to correctly understand them rather than jump to conclusions or decide they mean something else.

* You have fun together.

* You have similae values, lifestyles and dreams. You agree on where to live, married/not married, how many kids if kids, parenting style, religion, diet (you can have different religions or diets if you respect each others ways but you need to agree on how to raise the kids if you’re having kids).

* You agree on how the household chores are going to be divided and actually do your parts without being asked.

* You agree how you’re going to handle money/your finances. So if expenses are going to be split and if so how or if you’re going to do the ”all money are our money” and if so if you need to ask each other before you buy big things and so on. If one of you is bad with money and the other is good then how are you going to handle that etc.

* You’re compatible sexually meaning you’re both feeling you get what you need but are also aware that it won’t always be great and there will be times when you may go long periods without it and jow to handle that.

* Both are determined that you choose the other person and you’re going to make it work and divorce/seperation is not really an option and how you’re going to solve issues and maybe even loss of attraction or feelings (communication, therapy etc) when they come up.

[Nikki1989]

You will know if the time comes. If you have to ask this question of a man, you know he is not the one.

[ChicoFromThe305]

You won't know in the beginning, it's why dating is a thing and then you jump into a relationship, as time goes by, you'll then slowly realize I think.

[Tim2nice]

Your heart will tell you

[Danny_dan92]

You love him