What traits do you think are most important to find in a partner?

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Sonorous · Accepted Answer

Honesty, loyalty, sense of humor, PATIENCE, kindness, compassion, affectionate , sexual compatibility, intelligence, they can act calm under pressure or in stressful circumstances, punctuality and responsibility

Worst · Accepted Answer

Honesty, loyalty, sense of humor, PATIENCE, kindness, compassion, affectionate , sexual compatibility, intelligence, they can act calm under pressure or in stressful circumstances, punctuality and responsibility

HawkPerception · Answer

Everyone has different traits that they'll value in a partner. As for mine... they're:

Warm and gentle nature; Kind, compassionate & considerate

Loyalty and the desire to communicate what's on their mind to prevent any fights from persisting (Trust isn't built in a day. No one feels comfortable with their partner going out with others of the opposite sex so it's up to the partner to make their S/O feel at ease in each scenario by communicating where they're going, who they're with and to be available for communication when their partner checks up on them. And it's a 2 way street. Both partners should be doing this until they can trust each other blindly)

Being a philosophical and deep thinker; Intellectual curiosity

Adventurous spirit

Appreciation for aesthetic

The desire to maintain their health and fitness not just for themselves, but for their partners (I find that people tend to try harder out of a relationship to attract others but once they're in a relationship, they stop giving a shit because they think "well they're supposed to love me for me... not how I look)

Values relationships, meaningful connections, family and loved ones... someone who wants to be involved with your friends and who let's you be involved with their friends

Fabiloso · Answer

Knows what they want is a big one.

Bunch of women I've seen young and old have been hot af and the most lost, needy, mfs too. I was making posters for this one girl, had to be an insta model, best bikini pics I've seen. Not supposed to sell them but she was the exception I decided. I was sweating just trying to put it together to give to her. I hand it to her and she couldnt answer the first question asked on her own. She insisted on me to decide where she pays for it, so I sent her pretty plump ass to another register. And yes I watched her ass leave, while feeling really sad for her. She was fine af. Part of why I am so pissed off is that they get so frickin close to human perfection but it's all lost to society. To be fair a lot of extremly ferral humans do it too, but more often they at least have a sense of self that's respectable.

They can't make one damn decision on their own, probably can't commit to a relationship either which is wholly based on decision making. I don't know if it's their flirty personality, like how they say they're a needy little girl who needs someone to hold their hand 24/7 and think its a turn on. They just let themselves be stuck in this baby mode till they're an old gramma alone and asking for my advice like I'm a therapist but also her new mother she decided.

I will add, I admit I've seen mostly guys act like this more than anyone. Lots of sad dudes roaming around.

Wallythewalrus2 · Answer

I like them between 100-400, maybe 450lbs. It shows that they somewhat care about their appearance and health, because at least they keep it under 500lbs. A prison record for some type of violent crime, it shows the can be passionate about something. Ideally, if she was in prison for murdering a woman that was messing around with her boyfriend/husband. This one is very important, she has to be totally anti drugs! I find a relationship with both partners being drug addicts is doomed. Other than that, I’m not very strict,

NathanDavis · Answer

to me... there are three I definitely want to find in a partner, and that is when they're smart in any or few ways, when they are interesting as well... and when they are funny too, have a good sense of humor and appreciate it in others as well

now there's a few traits of personality and character that are always mentioned but to me these are a default from decent people, like loyalty, respect, honest and all that, these are basic to me and not negotiable

and everything is pretty much "open-range" to me... and they might vary from person to person, especially when it comes into looks and appearance...

abc3643 · Answer

A large bank account.
Why?
To me, that means:
1. They are fiscally responsible which means...
2. They are smart about being prepared for bad times which means...
3. They are not an idiot, are reasonable, and not subject to whimsy and drama being robust to the temptations from wherever.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Likeminded to me so that will be lazy, dark, laidback, creative, psychologically a mess, not neurotypical normal is boring, they like the same hobbies.
It's a pretty simple logic the more they are like me that's the traits I look for.

Some people say opposites attract and I laugh every time trying to picture such absurdity of me been with someone opposite to me.

etsylo · Answer

there are so many i find important.

honesty, loyalty, accountability, kindness, trustworthy, patience, helpful, considerate, compassionate, responsible, caring, loving, and a sense of humor as well. there's probably more but i can't think rn 💔

HighValue · Answer

Compatible morals, long term life goals, some hobbies/interests in common, compatible affection style, and they need to have a past that is acceptable to their partner. Also, they need to recognize that there is no true 50/50 relationship when it comes to decisions.

Anonymous · Answer

Proximity. The closer they live the better.

Loyalty. If they have never committed to someone... at least temporarily... what's the point?

Beauty. If theyre physically repulsive...

Kindness. The closer they get to being genuinely kind the more attractive they are. But even a false kindness is usually better than being genuinely mean.

Intelligence. The one thing I hate the most about humanity in general is how stupid we are. And how sure of ourselves we are. How much we want to argue before listening and seeing if we agree.

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Finding comfort in their eyes and personality. Knowing they understand and know how to support you. Which means I can trust them with my past and to join my future. Having a love of life for themselves and those around them. Being honest and willing to speak their mind. Devotion. Courage. Sense of humor. Intelligence.

To name a few.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Didn't you ask this already? Loyalty, humor, intelligence, common hobbies  Long hair, long nails, well proportioned, jewelry (especially on feet)

Julie4 · Answer

A man who knows how to be serious when necessary but who has a sense of humor, who is loyal, ... After that I don't have too many criteria, nobody's perfect lol

ColHathi · Answer

Just off the top of my head 🤔 Trust, and no expectations (unconditional love, and all that). An open mind and no judgementalness would be good too. ... is that even a word?

Those would probably be the top things for me.

Anonymous · Answer

For me, kindness is a massively important one.

Discression as well. Id prefer that our relationship not be discussed with friends and that. And I've heard how some people talk in relationships.

I'd like honesty as well.

I'm not sure on any others but I think the rest come down to more a degree of similarities for some stuff.

Gent207-2 · Answer

Personality  Commonality  Spirituality  These combined with four pillars of matrimony: kids, money, sex and in-laws.

Leowolf13 · Answer

Ability and willingness to communicate feelings and thoughts openly. Also sincerity and humility

IslaTheWitch · Answer

brains, life experience, sense of humor and quick wit

QuestionareGirl · Answer

Emotionally intelligent, kind, and romantic

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Loyalty, sympathy, kind hearted and a good sense of humor I underline loyalty cause it's the main

aceleon · Answer

loyalty and no sexual past if we talk about MOST important.

AydenHazor · Answer

Trust, loyalty, compassion, vulnerability, kindness and passion (not necessarily physical but there needs to be something that gets them fired up and excited)

TadCurious · Answer

Some of the traits are kindness, consideration of others and sense of humor.

Thestupidusername · Answer

Honesty and good communication. Without communication its just a guessing game. Also loyalty.

OnlyMeee · Answer

Personality, I mean this is what we truly fall in love with. Looks, build, financial status, are all bonuses I find, it's the heart and personality that counts the most.

Crmolon · Answer

For me, it would be kindness, loyalty and considerate. (Love an old school gent, so attractive)

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Likemindedness, same morals/standards and having the same goals for the relationship.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Loyalty, common interests/goals, and same page on whatever your sex life will be

exitseven · Answer

Honesty, kindness, motivation and being hot never hurts.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Selflessness, nurturing, disciplined, positive, honesty, loyal, goal oriented, and the most important one of all a god fearing man.

Anonymous · Answer

She has to be big and strong with lots of muscles to wrap me in her arms, pick me up, and make me feel safe.

Forceinhand · Answer

There are all the different cliche answers which to me feels like given traits that all desire. But for me, just someone who wants something more. That's the best way I can describe it as to how I dream about love.

Still-alive · Answer

For me its empathy a sense of humor and good communication skills

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Smart.  Non annoying. Honest. Loyal. Trustworthy.

nawtee_me · Answer

Long life, good family health, hard working and not lazy, smart, the list goes on….

elaphe · Answer

Honesty and good communication skills. A cute butt is also a plus.

Slim57 · Answer

Too lazy to type it out but definitely what @Worst said

jcampbell115 · Answer

I think you know mine already ☺️

KrisKris81 · Answer

Honesty, loyalty and a sense of humor.

Staximus · Answer

Honesty, loyalty, tolerance,

Jerre · Answer

I like girls who like sex as much as I do

TallAnon · Answer

Empathy, kindness, passion

Z1pTD · Answer

Kindness and patience

dolemite58 · Answer

sense of humor and big butt 😂

CubaPirate · Answer

Honestly and passion

fuddly · Answer

Faithful Caring Earns money

Anonymous · Answer

A really cute face is what works on me first.

Lostinthisworld94 · Answer

Smart, Loyal and crime partner

DJB72 · Answer

Integrity

Anonymous · Answer

Financial intelligence and general intellect

Jokerwss · Answer

Loyality

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