Yea people that jump from relationship to relationship are people that are scared to be alone and people you should clearly stay away from. Most girls ‘ that I have dated , were girls ‘ that just got out of a relationship , or they were still in a relationship , weighing their options , of course she lies about having someone else , but that’s just how most girls’ are , a selfish mindset , They are good in bed but not good for the long haul because it will just be a matter of time , before she trades you in as well. I know guys do this shit as well , so I am not just targeting girls’ , I just don’t date guys’ lol So the majority of girls’ I have met and showed interest in , usually have someone else or other options to choose
From or a back up plan , or she is just seeking a rebound and just trying to hurry up and get into a committed relationship without really
Getting to know each other , because she is scared to be alone. Why I no longer jump into a relationship with a girl , until her and I really get to know each other and see if she is really in it for the long haul, instead of the short haul , Me personally doesn’t really like being single , but I don’t mind being single until I meet someone that doesn’t fuck with my heart , I take relationships seriously , so for me to give her 100 percent , she has to being doing the same or she will just be short term fun to me , basically thanks for a good time , but not a long time. The thing is we aren’t mind readers , and we don’t truly know what someone’s true intentions are , people are just infatuated with each other , when we meet someone new , that we are attracted to and have good chemistry and connection with , but we never truly know what their true intentions are , or if they are truly being honest with us. Most girls’ I have hooked up with or had sex with , assumed all I wanted from her was sex and nothing more , they were in complete shock when I showed up with flowers the next day to let her know I really had a good time with her and would love to see her again and again. Sadly that is still a 50/50 chance on whether she wants to or not. Sadly most people hold secrets and lie and have a hard time being honest because they are afraid they won’t be accepted by someone they are attracted to and really like if they are honest , and sadly that is why most relationships do not make it because it’s all lies.
I've never had a girlfriend before in my life & I've definitely been okay with it. Funny though because I've always been that single guy people can rely on for decent relationship advice. I have always been cautious when it comes to this stuff.
I think the reason single people have good dating advice is cause they observe people's relationships and observe and memorize people's fuck ups so then you can spread to others on what not to do lol
Tbh though. Helps that we have social media so we could see sooooo many people's fuckups. And also I come from a broken family. Parents would argue a lot & eventually got divorced. That might have a huge unconscious influence on how I see relationships. I tend to have some of the avoidant, anxious, dismissive type of attachment styles.
Well you can't reflect all relationships off the one your parents had, there's good ones out there
Yeah, I know. I don't consciously do it. That's why I said 'unconscious.' 🤣 I believe certain beliefs about the world around can get woven into our minds & may cause adjustments to how we interpret & progress through the world. In ways we might not even realize until we're confronted with certain outcomes to analyze.
Yea I honestly don't know how to reply to that
I don't know you put me on an awkward spot slamming all the weight on my shoulders bro 😂
Well Then, ima get crushed to death
Jkjk 🤣 that all I'll say about the unconscious mind. I don't know too much about that topic. Kinda just going based on what I've heard some seemingly credible people say. But I do believe it might hold some truth.
But the greatest reason for why I avoid relationships is due to not wanting to experience the negative aspects of them. For me, I think not only would my hearing condition would pose a great obstacle, but my personality, biological tendencies, philosophical & social perspectives (etc) would all work in tandem to create some major incompatibility.
Fair enough lol
Lmao, I thought I'd STEP a bit out of my comfort zone with my profile pic ha
Thank you, my pacing stands strong lol
I’ve never had a problem being single but like being in a relationship more. The worst is feeling like you’re stuck in a relationship just because you feel it’s just growing pains, you’ll get past it and things will be like they used to be but never are. I went through that in my last relationship. I was single for almost a year after I ended it and did okay. It actually came at a good time, because I needed to focus on me. The guy I’m dating now just kind of popped into my life at just the right time.
Glad to hear it Becky 🤣💯
I was never in a proper relationship, only dating and I dont see myself being happy without relationship. I've done it, I've been practically single my whole life but can say im pretty far from fine about that. I can be single, proven as I am for so long, but Id be unhappy. Id also rather be single than with someone im really into so than again Id be unhappy in bad relationship as well. catch 22 So only misery for me for now haha
than with someone im really NOT* into
Why tho? Lol
Why what? I can't be happy without relationship? Cause i have strong need for affevtion n sharing everything w someone makes me happiest
Aww well there's nothing wrong with that, if you need affection then you just do 🤣💯
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I'm holding out for a robot.
Bo: Sam, have you given any more thought to you getting a fourth job?
Sam: Yes, but why can't you get a job?
Bo: I'm too busy.
Sam: Busy doing what?
Bo: Getting massages and going to lunch.
Sam: Oh, I see. I will try harder to find a fourth job.
Wdym a robot? 😂
Nope I like my women with flesh and blood 😂
But with a robot you can say...
Put another log on the fire.
Cook me up some bacon and some beans.
And go out to the car and change the tyre.
Wash my socks and sew my old blue jeans.
Come on, baby, you can fill my pipe,
And then go fetch my slippers.
And boil me up another pot of tea.
Then put another log on the fire, babe,
And come and tell me why you're leaving me.
For that I can just hire a made, making my wife a robot seems like a waste, besides I want her to have feelings, I wanna make her happy, I can't do that with a robot, also what if I wanna reproduce and have children, I also can't do that with a robot, also when I kiss her forehead I want to feel the softness of her skin, not some artificial robot skin, let's not forget the most important part, I want her to have a God given soul, that's basically gives life to a woman and without It, there's really nothing but junk metal lol
Maid*
Oof..
“Co-dependency” comes to mind when I think about people who haven’t learned how to enjoy their own company. I guess another word for it would be “needy” or “insecure”. To be fair, we’re social beings by nature and we have longer lifespans when we’re in relationships. Personally, I enjoy being alone even in a relationship. Everyone needs their privacy and space (I’d say at least 50% of the time).
That's fair enough seren 💯
m being single was never an issue to me, so far, so good...
but I've also spent many years in relationships, so I guess that's also a factor for me to enjoy both situations for what they are and what they can be...
Yea that definitely makes sense but I think when people say they can't, they literally can live happily without being in a relationship, but I don't know lol
I'm not sure about that either... lol
I wanna get to the bottom of this lol
I've heard about something like "being in love with falling in love" which is when some people do want to get into relationships often because they really like those first stages of falling in love with the idea of someone, which yes... can a VERY amazing experience, but then they start to lose interest very quickly, sabotage it, break off... and start over
so they might feel miserable while single too... because they just want all that to happen again
"falling in love with the idea of love" rather than actually loving the people they're with...
I've never heard of that saying but that does sound like a good way if describing it, interesting saying 🤔
it's something that psychologist and relationship therapists have come to write about... lol
Them mfs sure like making up sayings and shit, and blame em tho, sayings sound cool
lmfao... well, that's their job... to come up with theories that we're too messed up to figure out at the moment
can't*
Theories and sayings to go with those theories 😂
I've been single majority my life.. So, I'm okay with being single.. Content I would say.. Most normal people are probably content with being single at least for a bit of time.. There's all types of reasons for those who can't.. Neediness, time, peer pressure to start a family, not seeing being single in the best light etc.
Yea it can be many reasons and some might be mental, that's a good hypothesis
Haha Yes sir, the human mind, and it's different functions is a jungle sometimes.. We can never fully figure it out..
Yea I don't think we even know 50% of the functionality of the human brain
Yeah, that's why I believe there has to be a God.. Somebody to explain all these mysterious to us. Human observation can only go so far and it's really been an accumulation of knowledge passed down..
Mysterious things**..
Well one thing I know is that it surely didn't come from monkeys
Monkeys should be taxed
Lmaooo.. "Pay those taxes you damn dirty apes"..
Damn freeloaders 😂
u I can be either way. Aslong as I have someone to focus on if I’m single. Like a best friend for example. I’m independent in the way of taking care of myself, but I always need one person close to me, whether that’s romantically or platonically.
So your soul wasn't created to be alone, your soul craves company, no matter in what form as long as it's there?
Yeah, that’s a pretty good way of putting it. I don’t like to only focus on myself 24/7. I like to have someone around that I can focus on when I don’t want to focus on myself if that makes sense.
Yea in a way it makes sense, I think that's a good thing tho, it means you got a good heart and it's not a selfish heart.
I honestly can be single. If I need sexy time I'll just get a friend with benefits. Don't get me wrong, I love being in a relationship but I can be single if I had to.
Oof fair enough
Humans are designed by God to be social creatures. Even if your an Evolutionist, and believe in nature. You know that humans survive best together.
Can't argue with that
I've never had an actual relationship and so far and i don't feel i'm ready yet. But i'm never been complitely single to be honest, there was always someone in my life (friends with benefits, dates, crushes, casual flings) but i've never committed to anyone.
I'm comfortable being single and probably will committ once the relationship will actually add something more than just being single.
I never understood the hookup stuff, since you are anon I thought maybe you wouldn't mind some questions, respectfully of course, do you find happiness in all that stuff? Why rely on that more than an actually committed relationship? 🤔
I don't look for happiness when choosing to hook up with someone or when dating. I'm looking for new experiences, connections, fun and just getting to know new people.
I find happiness in other things or just don't really look for it.
But I get the question, i do sometimes feel "empty" after a casual encounter even if it's just a random date (i know it might seem like i'm constantly having sex with someone but i'm not ahahah i had a limited number of sexual partners in my lifetime) and maybe longing for something more but that feeling doesn't last long
Well I don't know how it works, I got that waiting for marriage mentality so I was genuinely wondering why so many people do so but that makes sense I guess, I believe you should chase love, I believe everyone should experience it and I feel like you are missing out considering it involves the type of fun you get from these random hookups as Well, expect there's a lot more that comes with it, just something to think about you know? 🙂
I detest being single. I know I'm pitiful, but I just like being in a relationship.
It is what it is, nothing wrong with that
Thank You, I'll do what I can to remain the favorite 🤣😬
Then that only leaves me with one thing to do, I gotta come up with a nickname for you 🤣🤔
Nah, I'll make sure it fits you and your personality 😊
Np 🤗😬💯
I can be single lol even after a long term relationship.. my best friend the opposite.. every week it's a different person smh
Your friend is wildin lol
That girl needs a chill pill
The whole bottle of chill pills
The whole stash of chill pills at the chill pill factory
Even the chill pills that that are known that they aren't going to made
Even the chill pills in other parallel universes
Even the chill pills that were decided not to be made in those parallel universes
Yea we gonna put your friend in an eternal sleep lol
Evil little Lisa 😂
So you telling me next week she gonna have another boyfriend? Lol
That can't be good for her reputation, you sound like the good influence in the group Lisa
Felt that
You can get the chill pills from my pharmacy 💊
I don't think I'd have a problem being single but it's so much better coming home to someone who loves you.
I can understand that
I have been single for extended periods of time but I was never truly happy being single. I have always been happiest when I had someone to share my life with.
That good bro
I can't be in a relationship. Girls do not love me.
Oof.
I prefer being single mostly coz all this time I never wanted a relationship
Why Not? 😶
I'm happy being single. I have a cousin that always has to be in a relationship and can't be single. It's called being a pendejo/a.
Lmao homie likes being in relationships, there's nothing wrong with that but reading this had me dead cause it came out of nowhere 😂
I think she might have low self esteem tho. He current boyfriend bought her a nose job.
*Her
That is... romantic? At least he helps her by existing 🙃
How is that romantic? He bought her a new nose. Like boy the heck... instead of hyping up her self esteem he went to buy her a nose 🤦🏻♀️ she looked better with her original nose tbh. Even if it was bumpy it fit her face better and she looked prettier. The new nose doesn't fit her facial profile.
Well I don't know how the nosejob works but he stayed with her tho so at least they have each other lol
Yeah and apparently he wants to marry her and have a kid with her. I should add he was a married man when they were seeing each other and he has like 3 kids. My cousin has 1 with some other foo. But she doesn't want to get married and have kids. I over heard her saying something like "for what? What's the point of getting married?" Oh yeah he's 43 and she's 27
🤷🏻♀️
Damn that's quite an age gap, they both seem to have run into fuck ups but I guess if they found each other, we can only hope it lasts until it doesn't, God forbid that time ever comes, when you gonna get married tho, your luck with guys is like my luck with lotto scratchers
I'm not looking to get married or date.
I thought you were
Nope. Is it cos I talk to random guys on here that u got that impression? 💀
Yep, now I can only assume it's for something else
Actually yeah, I would like to get married one day but not to these guys lol
I just like talking to random people 🙃
I'm not sure I'm buying that story anymore lol
What story?
The marrying one, after you literally said you didn't want too like 8 minutes ago
I do but not right now and not to these men here.
😒
Well I never said it was to these men here 😂
You said I had bad luck with men so I assumed u meant the weirdos here.
Well if you were having any better luck in person, I'd imagine you wouldn't be single crumble 🙃
Well I get asked out but I say no. I kinda don't wanna date. Is it weird I get grossed out when a guy shows too much attention to me?
Yea that's kinda weird, kinda self sabotaging as well, that explains a lot tho lol
What is the lot it explains?
Why you kill our convos at some point, sometimes in the middle of a decent convo lol
Oh I didn't realize that. Sorry about that 😔
Yep and when I decide to keep things short cause I know you'll do it again, you seem more into starting a convo, just cause I act blind to things doesn't mean i am blind to them lol but apology accepted crumble 😆
I am fine either being single or in a good relationship.
Fair enough
I would love to be single... but I'm so damn attractive that it probably would never happen. Not since I was like 14 years old when I started having sex with my teacher and had 3 girlfriends at one time.
I choose to be single. Not cause I can’t pull, I just like having freedom
I never doubted that if you are single it's by choice, same with your friend
Wait r u single or nah
Yep I've never had a problem with it lol
Single is underrated
It really is but I do want to marry at some point, I believe it's a good end game
Yeah lol it’d be a good end of the story
My thought exactly
Currently definitely single...
You'll find someone Isla 😊👍🏼
Life is too short to be single.
Fair enough
Those people are co dependent
Indeed so belle, it's not necessarily a bad thing tho 🙂
I’m married but can be single as well
Sounds legit Kelly, happy marriage to y'all I guess
I put the SIN in single.🤣
I put the dis in disappointment
Touché
I can be single but I hate being single.
I would say I can't.
I can do both
That's the common thing I believe
I love being single but relationships find me
I can be single but my sex drive cannot.
I've been single most my life
Ur back?
Oh ok I block u now
Farewell
depends on the time of the month
Perpetually single
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