Is the statement "if its meant to be it'd be" in terms of relationship actually true?

[Anonymous]

I've always belive in this statement and said it time without number but I'd like to hear the opinions of others concerning it. Does it really work that way?

[Amara_09]

It’s like that statement I heard, “ it’s your destiny”


Lol, we make our choices. If I want to be a stripper today, I can. If tomorrow comes and I want to go to medical to be a doctor, I can.


Anything is achievable in this world as long as you put your efforts and mind to it. What is meant to be is what you want it to be.


Realistically speaking, we all have our realities. It’s the only thing we can go off based on.

[Asker]

I agree buy in terms of romantic relationships do u think its true

[Amara_09]

It’s not true.

If I was meant to be a duck then how would that be possible?

It’s a bunch of bs fairytale shit people make themselves believe

[sheikalana]

I believe so. If it's meant to be you'll never need to rush or force things to happen.

[SoJust]

Of course, this statement is a very accurate statement because relationships are out of your hands, so you should think like this, whether it's under your control or out of your control, if you think like this, you'll be very comfortable.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Depending on situations, there's things that require effort so I don't believe it's that way for everything

[Asker]

I agree buy in terms of romantic relationships do u think its true

[ChicoFromThe305]

No I think romance would be a terrible example for this because it requires a lot of effort from both sides for it to work, now it can work with specific things in romance for example when running into your future lover, if it's meant to be with one person, it will eventually naturally fall in that direction when it comes to running into them for example, but after that, effort is required

[Crankor]

No. If you want something to happen, you make it happen. Saying the meant to be rubbish is just waiting for things to happen and or making excuses to not try

[Thestupidusername]

Yes. You can't force love. It's a choice.