What is wrong with signing a prenuptial agreement?

[Taylorbb]

This is an update to the prenuptial agreement question. To recap, my family has generational wealth that is passed down from my maternal grandparents and when I was 10 I made a promise to them to use their prenuptial agreement template whenever I commit. They warned that this template will assure them that their wealth isn't wasted and to make sure it gets properly passed down. But the last few relationships, all of my finances got angry and left me because of this prenuptial agreement. I try to tell them it's not my choice but my grandparents'. I made a promise and I'm the type to keep promises. And I give them freedom to put anything they need on the prenuptial, just so long as the template remains.

Now I'm dating this nice girl and she doesn't even know I have generational wealth and I'll tell her on Christmas day and assure we will always be financially safe for life. But I don't know how she will react with her signing the prenup template.

I've been through this road plenty of times and I always assure them it's a promise I kept to my grandparents. Its not my decision but theirs and I always will be considerate to my grandparents because they are the ones who accumulated the wealth.

[Fanfare690]

The right one will sign it. I saw a video that the most marriages with prenuptial agreements that didn't end in divorce both parties signed it and locked it in a safe and that was that

[Fanfare690]

But I think there's more to it. Like if you cheat... she gets this much. Etc etc

[Taylorbb]

Yeah, it was implemented in the prenuptial agreement, where if one is unfaithful or breaks a vow, they get 25 percent of the wealth newly accumulated from the spouse AFTER marriage.

In other words, let us say after I got married, I have a net worth of 20,000,000 prior to marriage but I only make a newly total of 40k throughout the marriage.
If I cheat, she'll only Get 25% extra of the newly 40k.
If she was worth 4500 prior to marriage but accumulated 60k, if she cheats, I get 25% of her newly 60k.

It is ensure complete equality. I don't touch her 4500 and she doesn't touch my 20,000,000

That's part of the template. It's to ensure nobody is after each others money. Complete transparency

[Thestupidusername]

Nothing wrong about it at all. I could easily sign one if I get married

[Billlewis]

Nothing. Absolutely nothing.

[sirderpsalot123]

There's nothing wrong with it