How would you feel if your partner had experience but you didn’t?

[mono_gram]

Or vice versa?

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It could be any kind of experience (dating, sex, etc.)

[ohsheeT]

The same way I feel now with my hands.. that's one of the best parts about being in a relationship or getting into a new relationship everybody has different levels of experience you share you grow you become one with each other no matter what don't feel bad don't feel guilty don't get anxiety relax and enjoy and learn be curious explore experience..

One of my favorite sayings is I need to experience something to understand it well just because I experienced it once or twice or three times doesn't mean that the fourth time I'm still not going to understand it and I want to go to the fifth time so think about it that way just because your partner has experience doesn't mean that they have experience

[BullShark]

Depends on what it is, actually. Sure, I may feel a sense of being left out and inexperienced if they're more proficient than me in things like sex or how many people they dated, but I wouldn't let that drive us apart if I really love them and vice versa.

I try to keep a level head in things like this, because everybody has their own story and their own unique experiences which make us who we are. Sure, she may have traveled the world, eaten a lot of exotic foods ans visited all the wonders of the world, but then there are things that I have done and experienced which she may not have.

[IslaTheWitch]

It looks like in my every relationship, I was this inexperienced person :D So I somehow got used to it :D

But not anymore ffs :P

[Anonymous]

Depends on the level of the experience and her attitude to it.

Most PEOPLE use thier past EXPERIENCES to define their current relationship (whether they admit to it or not). So the more "experience" a woman has the more futile it is to date her in general. You're constantly battling the ghosts of her past.

This is generally why men want to date younger women. In general the younger the shorter track record she has.

Again these are ALL generalizations. I have met women in there 40's that didn't drag their past into their current relationship much if any.

[Billlewis]

The greater the disparity between the amount of experience she's had sexually versus my own experience, the better, with her being much more experienced than myself.

[BadApple69]

Nothing in the universe is created equal. One will always have more experience than the other.
So how would it make me feel? It wouldn’t make me feel anything at all.

[NathanDavis]

been there, never been an issue really

[KrakenAttackin]

At your age my most women have much more dating and relationship experience, as well as more sexual partners.

[FenixG45]

I'm happy if my partner has good experience that I don’t. Partners in crime should complement each other!

[OddBeMe]

Every couple’s first time is awkward. No matter the experience of either. Stop worrying.

[Anonymous]

He has experience but I was virgin, he treated me very well

[Berethor]

I am not into hos.

[Jamie05rhs]

It would be awkward. I wouldn't like that.

[Pete671]

I'd love it, they could teach me,,,