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1 yDaily? I'd say that's pretty extreme. Don't think I'm put into that position DAILY where I have to be very careful what I say to not offend someone or someone's friend or to not be completely honest with someone I'm trying to sell something to in retail.
I like being on the up and up.
The occasions I have lied? Someone asks if I can do something with them and I'm not interested and they're not a close friend of relative. People close to me? I just say, no I can't, too tired, not interested or the like. Just the facts.
Acquaintances? I take the "no offense" route more often, and sometimes a lie might be involved. I know in the past when I've been stressed out, I took sick days when I wasn't "physically" sick, but needed to stay home and time out. Those were lies.
But, the older I've gotten, the less often I find myself needing to fake anything. It's the gift of maturity.
On the OTHER hand, there is the avoidance of telling a truth that someone does not NEED to hear or know. There seems to be a set of folk who think that in a couple both have to tell each other EVERYTHING about their previous lives, even if the everything will hurt that SO.
My only ex kept asking me about how "big" other men were who I slept with. I never told him because it was an absurd question to pursue, all were bigger than him, and how was that going to make him feel? So, I told him, I wasn't going to discuss such a question, and factually, it was NONE OF HIS BUSINESS. We were not together then, and it had no bearing on our relationship.
So, sometimes, lying is called her. It shouldn't be a regular thing. It should be reserved for untenable situations, where truth-telling can be damaging and dangerous.
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1 yI don't lie very often but sometimes I hide things. Like I usually wait for my parents to take a nap and then eat some food I'm not supposed to eat such as an extra serving of ramen or a double slice of fatty cheese etc... That could be classified as half lying cause I am sneaking around the house to eat forbidden high calorie food. I also lie to my parents about how much money I spend on things cause I do not want to get yelled at. They will ask me how much something costed when it arrives in the mail and I will tell them I can't remember.
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1 yI don't even lie here on the internet when I could say, instead of seven inches, I have a 3-foot long monster dong!
Here is why I just don't bother with lying. IT'S TOO MUCH FUCKING WORK. I can' recall all information I put out there and why on the spot because I'm just recalling the truth. No imagine "your truth" being a bunch of fabricated lies and you got to remember all that shit and who you told it to and all that shit... nugga, I can't remember the god damn multiplication tables or how to spell shit without spell check... I'd be the worst lying butthole out there. A good lier has to be able to pull up information that not just happened... but to also fabricate bits and parts and remember where he fabricated that shit. THAT'S TOO MUCH FUCKING WORK! It's simply not worth the effort.

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Anonymous(36-45)1 yOnce you lie you have to keep lying to back it up. That’s a lot of work and sooner or later your cover gets blown. But I get why some people do this. They often do it “to be nice” or fake it to make it.
The intention behind lying is what I judge more. Some people that consider themselves as so called “honest” really just like tearing out into other people to bully them. Yet those “honest people” can often dish it out but can’t take it. I had real POS former boss like this. Always pointing out other people’s shortcomings but was an obese, ugly sociopath himself.
When I don’t know what to say I just stay silent. Don’t lie but don’t bully either.
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I think I've ran into a lot of those fuckers here on the internet, on this site, in the politics section. Instead of looking at or investigating your facts or logic... they get straight to name-calling. The lying really starts when you start asking questions. They'll say they have a degree or watched some info you put out there... but then catch them somewhere else... they'll deny that degree and have no knowledge of the info you put out there for them to read. They just wanted to call D_Bone names and somehow justify it in the moment. That's why I think they're just trying to be a bully.
It's not about coming to a greater conclusion for them.
Opinion Owner1 y@D_Bone_Steak it’s all about “poisoning the well” with these low IQ morons. They try to attack you personally as a method to discredit your opinion. They are hoping you will get pissed off and label/name call them back so they can turn around and label you “the bigot”. It’s similar to a school bully who harasses a kid with the goal of the kid getting punching them back. And when the kid does hit them back HE is the one to get in trouble. Absolutely f’ing ridiculous.
You see far leftists do this bs constantly. They do something ridiculous hoping for a response so they can label the opposition “oppressors and bullies”. Hate that bs.
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558 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nah I've actually never lied in my life
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Except just now. LOL
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Don't even know what that means. lol. But if you think you've never lied, enjoy your illusion.
1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I'm way more honest than most, but if need be I do and can lie. I prefer giving truthful answers but if those could get me in serious trouble I don't. In a relationship I never had a need to lie like that since I was honest and had integrity. But in a scenario where I am otherwise forced to do something I don't want to do with no other way out lying is a useful tool.
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One example would be if my employer asked me what political party I vote for while i'd know he has been openly vocal about hating the one I support. While I still wouldn't outright lie i'd give an answer purposefully misleading that makes him draw the right assumptions even if i'd be describing the one I vote for.
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I relate to this. I hate having to lie, but there are those situations like the political stuff. I have to dig real deep to tell the truth sometimes and just admit I like Trump. Most people don't want to hear that. They want to hear me say what they want to hear me say... I have to analyze them and the situation in those situations. But I can just fucking say the truth here... I fucking think Trump is better than the other options. People can disagree with it... doesn't matter to me here. But if it was a boss that is like pro liberal, trans, BLM, and some globo homo shit and my paycheck depends on saying the right answer... yeah, I'd lie. I basically have to unless I want a huge fight on my hands complete with strife and struggles.
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You have me thinking because of your answer... this is why votes should be held in secret. I can vote for Trump and not get prosecuted for it. I voted for Trump last time, but the form of prosecution I endured was Biden fucking everything up... he doesn't have a lick of economic sense for citizens and just for himself. Because at the end of the day... I just want money, and I just want shit to be cheap to buy. I don't care about "social justice" or whatever... they can tongue my anus.
1 yLying requires remembering everything you've lied about and to whom you've lied... I'm too lazy for such games. Telling the truth doesn't require additional effort :D
50 Reply384 opinions shared on Relationships topic. O yea for sure. Usually on the apps where i'm talking to someone.
Them: Where you from?
Me: (anywhere but my main state)
Them: How old are you?
Me: (younger or older than my age)
Why? None of ya business, bud. :)
12 ReplyI use to lie but it’s much better when you don’t have anything to be ashamed about and you never have to worry about losing your integrity. It’s just not worth it. And surely you can leave details out or avoid talking about certain things that you don’t want to share without lying.
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Last sentence is a good point. There is a big difference between avoiding talking about certain subjects vs bringing them up just to lie about them. Less talk is better if you want to remain honest.
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1 yNah I only tell white lies, like "yeah your hair looks fine" even tho it looked like shit you just don't want them to feel bad or insecure because it isn't that big of a deal.
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1 ynope
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1 yI don’t think I do, not right now. My last job, I had to lie constantly to cover for my bum ass company’s mistakes and overall shortcomings😂
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1 yNo, but I'm autistic. It leads to a lot of problems though because people do not want/expect honesty.
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1 yI hardly lie at all.. I'm pretty honest.. That isn't to say I don't lie sometimes, but it's not that often at all.. So basically.. I don't lie in everyday life.
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1 yI make it a point not to. Although I do but very seldomly.
10 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Once in a while, gee your hair looks great, have you been losing weight, those jeans make your butt look so small...
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1 ySometimes but it’s either when people are nosy or when I need to get out of trouble. Never with intention to hurt someone.
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m 1 yNo, it’s not really great to be doing that with friends and work colleagues.
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1 yNope. Growing up I used to lie daily.. mostly out of fear and insecurity. Then I was challenged to be more honest and probably now the pendulum has swung too far the other way.
00 Reply 6.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. When I was in sales for 20 years I lied every day. Now I mostly tell the truth
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1 yOn the sofa during the day, and the bed at night.
00 Reply 496 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Have I lied... of course, but not daily and I don't think that often either
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1 yThe only time I lie is when I care about someone and don't want to hurt their feelings.
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1 y"Me, I always tell the truth... even when I lie".
10 Reply My memory is so bad, where I forget if the lie I told was true or false 💀
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Anonymous(36-45)1 yI only lie to the phone sex operators, my wife and the government.
00 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. daily life? no. but sometimes i do
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1 ySometomes, but only if i have to, i prefer honesty
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1 yI try not to but it's hard not to.
00 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I'm lazy so I don't lie. Too much work.
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1 yNo not really. Very rarely.
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1 yI don't talk a lot to even lie , so no
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1 yOnly when I sleep.
00 Reply 827 opinions shared on Relationships topic. No lies always catch up to you
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1 yYep, when it benefits me
00 ReplyI rarely lie
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1 yThat's very true
00 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. PREFER NOT TO
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Anonymous(25-29)1 yI rarely speak daily how would I lie to people
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Anonymous(25-29)1 yno ı do
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