I just learned my fiance doesn't like kids, is that unusual that she doesn't?

[Anonymous]

Her and kids don't seem to get along at all, I had no idea.

[LostSouls_]

I wouldn’t say it’s unusual. It’s quite normal for one to not like/not want kids. They definitely aren’t for everyone. If they are something you want tho, I’d be having a serious think about things before getting married

[Asker]

I'm honestly not sure if I want kids, I hear they're great but then doubt starts creeping in when I think about it.

[LostSouls_]

Kids are cool and all but I love being able to give my nephew back to his parents when he becomes a devil 😂

[Asker]

Haha! Yeah, the more I think about it, I believe being with her is more important to me than having kids is.

[LostSouls_]

As long as both of you are happy and satisfied that’s all that matters 😊

[LazerBean]

No it's not normal, and it's pretty sad that you have somehow missed such a huge characteristic of hers until now.

[Asker]

Old saying: you don't really know someone until you live with them.

[LazerBean]

The biggest thing I found out about my husband after we got married is that his favorite Gatorade flavor is yellow. How did you miss something as detrimental as finding out that your fiance doesn't like children? It's like y'all don't even talk

[Asker]

I said I wasn't sure if I wanted them, she said they were "okay".

[Redstang88]

No, lots of people don’t

[Anonymous]

Why did she have kids, then?

[Asker]

She didn't, but her brother did and I've seen they don't get along.