What do you do when your spouse does like kids but we already have one together?

[Greeneyessaint]

We have one kid.
i want another kid in-time
It too hard for her to raise one but not for me and I take care of her most of the time.
she doesn’t have patient with her.

[midnightmoon05]

If having a larger family is important to you, you can share that and give her a short time frame to decide.
I don’t know if her reason justifies not having another child.
there are solutions like you shared… and or have a nanny…

I know one of my friends husband divorced her for not willing to have a child.
be careful when/how you select a mate.

[TrueConfection]

That's sad for your daughter. If v she doesn't change or get help soon, you might as well prepare yourself for her departure. She'll jump ship.

[Greeneyessaint]

Like she will departure from the baby and I

[TrueConfection]

I think it's a possibility. I heard a mom once say, "He's gonna have to get soneone else," after she regretted becoming a mother. Another one whose husband wants more kids and takes care of her and their son said she'll never have another baby because she was, "creeped out," feeling it move inside her while pregnant. She's used to being a princess and now she's in competition with her toddler for everyone's time and attention.

I strongly urge you two to seek help for postpartum depression. Also go on dates. But DON'T let your daughter assume she is the reason you two don't have more kids.