After my boyfriend and I did it?

[Anonymous]

He would always go straight to talking about how he wants to be better at his work and wants to do things for his business. He would also give me less attention and is less touchy. It makes me feel like shit that we did it, and it doesn’t make me feel seen. We wouldn’t even do it often at all, maybe twice and week but most of the time once a week. Like I said RIGHT after we do it he would start talking about his life and how much better he can do. Is there a reason why he does it?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, that's super wack of him. Like, you guys just shared a intimate moment together and then he just rolls over and starts talking about himself? That'd make anyone feel like crap.

I don't know exactly what his deal is, but it kinda sounds like he's got some issues he needs to work on. Most guys know you're supposed to cuddle with your girl and make her feel special after ya know. Not start going on about their job and stuff. He probably just gets in his own head too much.

I'd try talking to him, be like "hey when we're done hooking up, I wanna feel close to you not hear about your day." Maybe he doesn't realize how it's making you feel. If he doesn't listen then, then I'd say you deserve better than that. A real man will appreciate his girl! Don't let him make you think it's your fault, that's just lame of him.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's because he loves you and in his mind being with you is making him feel motivated to do better in his life, in order to impress you.
This is a good thing! Please do not feel bad.

Maybe you can just suggest to him how you want him to cuddle with you and stuff.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[laraWM]

It looks like he's anxious about his work or about his life?
Did you talk about it? Or did he just complain?

[Alex-Snow]

That is way weird. He should be talking about the sex you two just had and the great orgasms and asking if you want to go for round 2. How often are u having sex with him? Does he do this every time u have sex? Even after round 2 or 3?

[Asker]

That is what I thought. About 1-2 a week. No he doesn’t like doing it 2 times. I do but it’s fine

[Alex-Snow]

Can u try to change the subject when he does it? He does not like round 2 ? how old is he?

[Asker]

I have never tried to because I don’t want him not to feel unheard. No he doesn’t, we have been dating for a year and a half now and we probably only have done round 2 about 2 or 3 times. We are both 18 years old.

[Alex-Snow]

Good for u on considering his feelings about being unheard but he also should consider ur feelings. I'm ur age and I like to talk about the sex we just had afterward... what was fun, the great orgasms etc. I know all guys are different but teen guys usually want several rounds of sex if there is time, I mean I do the orgasms keep getting better and better. Ur thoughts?

[Alex-Snow]

Was he a virgin when he met u?

[Asker]

That is what I thought. No he was not a virgin I was actually before we met. That is why I’m so unsure about it bc it’s my first time sharing this with someone.

[Alex-Snow]

Good for u. I was a bit nervous but psyched the first time I had sex which was last May. Message me if you want to know more about what an 18 yr old guy thinks during and after sex.

[GregorSamsa]

He's looking for a trophy wife or secretary he can bend over the desk to fluff him before he goes to a meeting to grunt at powerpoint slides with homoerotic depictions of bulls and bears on them.

[Anonymous]

I think you need to rid yourself of that clown. He seems very self centered.