Why would a man just focus on his girlfriend's negative traits instead of her positive ones?

[Anonymous]

[GWolcott]

I think that’s a red flag in a relationship with that partner might not worth your investment
honestly it’s your choice on what you want to do.

[Anonymous]

Dude sounds very toxic to me..

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Because the negative traits usually become issues within the relationship. Men or women can provide 90 percent of being a perfect partner and yet long term relationships and marriage will break up because they each focus on the missing 10 percent.

Yes it is asinine and idiotic but it happens daily.

[Asker]

Yeah but if you just keep focusing on what is negative then what kind of relationship is that? !

My last ex, the one before this one, wanted to SOLVE problems together, not split up BECAUSE of it!

[Luckycharms12]

Clearly a problem