How do you respond when someone cheats on you and acts like it is no big deal?

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myloveforuisinfinte · Accepted Answer

You’re probably hurting and I understand this pain all too well. Betrayal hurts. Its best that he showed you his real colors now rather than later, deep in the future. Remind yourself that. It’ll save you a lot of time.
Bad bitch tip that ALWAYS worked for me: Break up with him (if you haven’t already) and go no contact for like a month or two. Absolutely disappear. Block him on everything and heal up. He’ll try to contact you sometime within that month or two. IGNORE HIM!!
(That’s exactly what you want, to regain control 😈)
In about a month your pain will have faded a bit, but when no contact is over, appear stronger and looking absolutely better than when you were dating. Move on like it wasn’t even an issue! If he appears to want you back because he’s “so sorry and it won’t happen again”, YOU WIN. He’s fucked up for cheating on you.
However, it’s too late for him because YOU won't GIVE HIM ACCESS TO 2.0 VERSION OF YOU. His loss. You don’t date weak men that fall into temptation. One chance only typa girl. You know you deserve better.
And just like that, you’re better than him and he’ll know it because cheating is fucked up.
Slay sis. u deserve better 💕✨

Tina19 · Accepted Answer

Staying loyal is a choice it has nothing to do with your self worth if the other person cheated on you it speaks only about their character

ohmyguy · Accepted Answer

The first time or two stings especially when your not a serial dater... but recognising it's enevitable
One way or an other... I you cheat your self thinking it won't happen to you.. n if you assume your special or the exception.. or what ever is nieave...

.. best response... is to remove your self from how much it matters.. to a place off zero to little overall significance...

The less u skip a beat the better..

Any one who thinks they're cheating on me is only cheating them selves especially if they go out of their way to fool you... or you yourself ingnore clues n cues.. warning signs.. passively dismissing them.
Your really cheating your self.

I also recognize that attractive people generally get attention from thoughs who are attracted to them... n as dilligent you both may be... you never repell them all... any thing of value left unattended one should not be surprised.. it goes missing.. and even if its locked n bolted down it still gets scooped.

.. is it the first time or twentyith in a row?

sawno · Accepted Answer

I'd leave immediately. The fact its no big deal to them is more offensive to me than the cheating, it means its definitely happening again.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

If only they drew the line at cheating. They almost always add in various lies and backbiting, to go for maximum damage. And when caught, either roll their eyes funny and invent excuses that take on a whole new level of complexity in order to deflect blame or else act like the lying was also no big deal.

As long as a gal like that has nothing to hold over me, I cut her loose and go Waldo on her. Can't stand thots like that.

bolverk · Answer

The two who cheated on me back in the day acted like it was no big deal - Until I dripped all of the evidence I'd collected on them on my Facebook that both my family had theirs had open access to, as soon as I did that they both had melt downs, and the wives of the two guys they cheated with some how found my Facebook account and copied the information and had their own "D-days".

Lliam · Answer

I'd dump them for cheating. And acting like it was no big deal would make them the kind of low life, ghetto cretin that I wouldn't associate with or acknowledge ever again.
I wouldn't be sad if something tragic happened to them.

JacobJordan · Answer

Ignore the second part and deal with the first part. How do you respond when someone cheats on you. You end the relationship and leave. Quite simple. Doesn't matter what their reaction is they cheat you leave.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

At that point they're the cheater is a sociopath, and it's time to get away as fast as possible..

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I would dump him and kill his dog. Now he will know not to fuck up with the next one, or he might lose something precious.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Not sure but I'd just break-up with them at that point.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Drop `em like a hot brick and try to never talk to them again!!

Altheavas · Answer

It wouldn’t be a big leaving their ass, unless you like being disrespected and treated as a doormat!

electromagnetic · Answer

You cheat, you’re out. Plain, simple, and into the point

douride2 · Answer

Kick their sorry a$$ out onto the curb. You cheat your gone.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Leave them and act like it's not a big deal then go on with your life.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I cut them out of my life and act like they are no big deal.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Buh bye now. I have yet to have the door hit me in the ass on the way out.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

If they’re remorseful, maybe consider giving them a second chance. If they act like it’s no big deal, dump their ass in a heartbeat and never speak to them again.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Is she cheats I immediately end it and do not look back.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE BUT ID KINDA EXPECT COMING

laly520 · Answer

leave em no words needed

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

By breaking up with them. Duh.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Leave them. Better off in the long run.

PonyCar · Answer

You leave them.

Gbear01 · Answer

You cut them off completely

IslaTheWitch · Answer

Sayonara looser

Minahh · Answer

Never see his ugly ass again

jahaims · Answer

Would cut contact the second I found out

nawtee_me · Answer

Leave them without a doubt.

RavVid · Answer

Dump'em.

Anonymous · Answer

Kick their ass to the curb..

LavLavLuv · Answer

Oh BYE

OtterMan68 · Answer

adios

Anonymous · Answer

Immediate termination.

Miristheiss · Answer

I'd be gone.

Anonymous · Answer

I leave.

Booklover_90 · Answer

👋🏽✌🏾

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Adios!

ethansf · Answer

Leave

Anonymous · Answer

Get rid asap

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