What's your reaction to a cheating partner?

[LuisitoElProf]

If a guy cheats on his girlfriend, the girl attacks the other girl. And vice versa.. Why? Shouldn't your anger be directed at the person who cheated on you?

[jackpotwinner]

I agree 100% The cheating partner is the one whom should be held accountable,. The only exception would be if the person cheating with your partner is someone whom calls themselves your friend. If they call themselves your friend but really they're trojan horsing you and really just banging around with your partner, then they should definitely be held accountable as well. That said, one should never resort to physical violence as a means of accountability nor punishment. If your partner cheats, you either forgive or you don't and you either stay with them or you dont. If you choose to stay with them you must forgive them and you have to come to terms with the probability that it will happen again because the likely hood of it being a one time thing is very very low.

[Boredguy400]

It's a knee jerk reaction to feel threatened or humiliated by the other person sleeping with your partner.
Once you cool off it's important to never fight anyone over a person that doesn't care enough to be faithful to you.
They aren't worth it.

[lovelycara]

Nah, that's what the guy wants. Don't give him what he wants. If I caught them in the act, I would just walk out. But, don't show him that you're mad, don't make a big deal out of it. Then, I'd just play petty. Do everything you can to trick him out of his money.

[Hazelstar]

Well, last time my ex boyfriend cheated on him I asked him what went wrong in our relationship that he cheated on me. It was all him. The problem is not with the side chick or guy but the cheating partner.

[Jxy95]

I wouldn't attack the other tbh, if he cheats I will just leave. Once a cheater always a cheater. No tolerance for that behavior

[KitKnickKat]

I would probably kick my boyfriend in the balls super hard and be on my way

[neurolove]

Yeah, I never understood that. For me, I direct anger in the right place.

[angiebangie]

Its hard to think that way in the moment. You don't want to face the fact that the man you love is who'se done you dirty. You don't want to face that.

[AmeerX]

Common mentality, the other person lured him or her away from me. It means she loved him so much that she couldn't believe it was his fault for leaving her.
The other girl must be at fault for making him go away. Blind but still love

[CuriousGuyP1]

Immediately breakup with them. But I’d definitely want to know why? Why couldn’t you breakup with me?

[crazygus77]

Break up with her. I was in this position, and that's what I did.

[msc545]

It should be directed at the person who cheated on you, but leaving is just easier.

[Anonymous]

A girl ever cheats on me she’ll be in the desert digging her own grave at the end of a double barrel

[Twinrova]

I'd just dump her and get a new girlfriend, lol.

[smb930]

Less is more. Just walk away

[Cryptic-Game]

They are horrible people and they're a wuss.

[Gedaria]

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