How can I be more trusting?

[Anonymous]

When I met my boyfriend I had the impression that he was a player because he kind of was. But since we started dating he has been so loving and kind and hasn‘t given me reasons not to trust him. The problem is that I still get suspicious so much, I always wonder if he‘s secretly flirting or something like that. I feel like subconsciously, I am looking for something to validate my initial impression of him. what can I ACTUALLY do to stop thinking this way?

[SueShe]

You don't need anything to validate your first impression. First impressions are usually right, mainly for a girl. We have this 6th. sense and I have never been wrong about my 6th. sense.

If he gave you this impression of being a player initially when you met him, then there is probably something about it that made you aware of it. It could be a hint, an uneasy feeling or simply something that made you uncomfortable with.

How long have you 2 met? If it is 2 weeks, then you should be on your guard 24/7. If it was several years ago, then you can slowly let go but still be wary that something may be fishy. A guy seldom stays faithful for such a long period. There are always hints that should make you suspicious.

[Anonymous]

Meditate. Listen to self guided meditation recordings. They’re all over YouTube. Go see a therapist or relationship coach. Don’t make your insecurities your boyfriend’s problem.

[strateguy632]

remind yourself repeat the good memories when he was loving and kind. his actions showed what was real.

[kingmaker21]

Always remember once a player is always a player...😉

[In_Trance]

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