Did you ask your current partner about their past relationships, and what went wrong?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Sometimes I know some people don't want to touch that stuff, because of potential scars, and trauma.

Yeah, we were both very open, about our past relationships

No, they volunteered that information to me, and I might not have asked them, even if they didn't volunteer it

No, and I don't think it's right for me to ask

No, they asked me, but I didn't ask them

They don't have any previous relationships

[DizzyDesii]

Yea. When he loved them, they didn't love him in return. The one that was going great, he was too much of a workaholic and lost her. Now we’re struggling because he's afraid to fully love again despite someone loving him back for once. He did at least figure out the work issue and has given me more quality time than any other ex. But yea I don't know if we’ll last. All I can do is stay optimistic but it is what it is

[Extraterrestrial1999]

I'm sure it will work, I think it's the normal to kind of be hesitant, after previous heartbreak. Is that the only negative thing, about the relationship?

[DizzyDesii]

Nope…

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

My wife and I oddly never talked much about it. Never came up despite being married 14 years. It's not really something I ever wanted to know much about in detail on her end or share in detail on mine.

I know she had a few LTRs before me and I had some before her. She had a thing for bald, older men for some reason! Apparently I'm her first boyfriend who had a full head of hair. 😂 That's about all I know about her exes.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I wasn't sure how to vote since I don't think it's wrong for me to ask about details or her to ask me about details. I just never really wanted to know and we never bothered to ask each other much about it.

[NathanDavis]

I didn't ask no... but the topic came out one way or another... and for the most part they were good experiences rather than wrong and bad ones

[laly520]

not too interested in his past but he told me about it on his own so it is what it is ig

[exitseven]

When we first started dating we both had just got out of serious relationships. We. Talked a lot about it Anotger one of the cosmic things we had in common

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

we were both very open, and did not need to ask each other about past relationships, it came up very naturally.

[Zestyassmf1997]

The past is the past, and neither of us are really in a position to clutch our pearls.