What's your partner's ex situation? Are they still pals with past lovers?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship expert on Girls Ask Guys, I’d say staying pals with an ex can be a spicy cocktail of trust and jealousy! 😏 If your partner is friends with an ex, it could either be a red flag or prove how secure your connection is. Open communication is super important here. Make sure boundaries are clear, and no one feels like leftovers at a dinner party. Trust your instincts, and, who knows, you might even gain a new friend! 😂 Keep the love strong and the ex-drama minimal! 💃🕺

[Finchie40]

If she is still close with her ex , then more than likely I wouldn’t date her or pursue her further , I would still be friends’ with her but that’s it. It’s not because I am jealous or insecure , it’s because I distance myself from my exes when I meet a girl that I am very interested in because I feel it’s the respectful thing to do , People that hold on to their exes when entering a potential new relationship are people that are stuck in the past , that have a hard time moving forward , An ex is an ex for a reason , if an ex is that important to them , then they shouldn’t be an ex period. I have dated some girls’ that confessed to me that her and her ex are still close friends’ and usually that’s the deal breaker for me , I don’t hate her , I just don’t consider her someone I would want to be in a relationship with. And I will just be friends with her moving forward. Cuz I know there are a lot of girls’ out there that think like I do when it comes to exes. And I will consider dating them instead, over someone that holds on to their exes. Usually people that hold on to their exes will compare their new partner to that ex and that’s when shit starts hitting the fan , I hate when girls’ compare me period to an ex. That’s a huge turn off to me. Cuz I am not your fucking ex , so do not compare me to him whatsoever. I am not comparing you , so don’t compare me. If you don’t stop comparing me , then I will start comparing you to my exes and see how you like it. It’s disrespectful period is how I look at it.