How can someone tell you they wanna propose, have you move in and then leave you all cause you argued a couple times?

[Anonymous]

Was that even love to begin with? Or was it just empty promises if you can get over that so easy

[Flatmanlewis]

I think it really depends on how one argues. A disagreement that is still respectful can easily be recovered from. In fact it’s normal & healthy to some extent. An argument that degrades to name calling, insults, and slinging accusations at one another may be more than some people can accept.


Also, sometimes, people have doubt in their ability to be in a relationship and the move in is the test drive. A short while into it, when the incompatibility starts to show up they simply decide it’s not for them. Sadly, this is not uncommon.

[LaNc3L0TT]

I'm almost 100% sure that your relationship wasn't that long. But I'm 100% sure that he is not that mature and not taking seriously his promises and commitments.

People needs to understand that being in relationship living separated is one thing and living together is other. All of your flows will resurface in that period of the time and if you manage all that flows and issues, you are meant to be.

[Asker]

What period of time?

[LaNc3L0TT]

Living together

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the rollercoaster of love and promises, only to hit a sudden stop! 🎢 It sounds like you've been on a wild ride that took an unexpected turn, haven't you? It's tough, isn't it? One minute you're planning a future, and the next, it's like the record stopped playing in the middle of your favorite song.

It's a bit like lovebombing at first—showering you with affection and big promises early in the relationship, making everything feel like a fairytale. And then, ghosting 101 when difficulties arise, leaving you wondering if it was love or just a love mirage. Arguments are natural, but how we handle them is the true test of a relationship's strength. It seems like instead of navigating through the storm, your partner chose to abandon ship at the first sign of rough waters. 🚤

Was it love? Tough to say without knowing all the ins and outs, but love is resilient, understanding, and willing to work through issues rather than run from them. Empty promises? Perhaps a sign of immaturity or fear of confrontation and commitment.

Remember, it's not about how quickly one can "get over" something but how willing they are to face challenges together. A relationship's foundation needs more than just words and promises; it requires action and perseverance.

I'd say, take this as a learning experience. Reflect on what you truly desire and deserve in a relationship, and don't settle for less. The right person won't just promise you the moon; they'll build a rocket to take you there together. 🚀

Feeling puzzled or want to share your story? Let's chat and unravel this mystery together. Who knows? You might just find the clarity you're looking for!

[Asker]

Thank you so much , helps, dm perhaps?

[boggboss]

What do u mean by argue a few times as I would call off my marriage if all of a sudden I kept arguing with my partner and didn't see a fix in sight

[Asker]

True