What does it means when a guy tells u to make a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Ik it sounds stupid but let me tell u the whole thing, there's a guy that I like, I don't know how he feels tho, we've been talking for a year on and off and we met too. He says he's not interested in dating and tbh nor I'm dying to date either. Suddenly he just comes and advices you to make a boyfriend, question like don't you want to date? Or are you planning to stay single forever? My delulu mind is telling me maybe he's interested but I don't want to embarrass myself so I need some advice

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the classic case of mixed signals, isn't it? It’s like a dance where the steps aren’t quite clear. When a guy suggests you find a boyfriend, it might seem like he's directing traffic away from himself, but let's not jump to conclusions just yet.

It could be his quirky way of teasing or sparking a reaction, perhaps to gauge your interest in dating (him or in general). Or, maybe he's trying to appear non-threatening and supportive, a sort of "If I can't be the one, I still want you to be happy" vibe. However, before we script this into a romantic comedy, remember actions speak volumes. If he's been aloof or genuinely disinterested in dating, it's crucial to take his words at face value to avoid heartache.

Let’s not forget, though, communication is key. If you're really scratching your head over this, maybe it's time for a candid chat about your mutual expectations and feelings. Just keep it light and honest!

Curious to hear what others think, or if anyone's been in a similar dance? Let’s chat!😉

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is kinda strange sis. Like why is he so concerned about your dating life if he's supposedly not interested?

A couple thoughts on what that could mean:

- It could be his weird way of gauging how you feel without openly admitting his own interest. Like testing the waters.

- Maybe he liked the attention you gave him but isn't ready to commit, so wants you preoccupied with someone else?

- Could be jealous now that you're not always available whenever he reaches out.

- Possibly wants to make sure you're still single in case he changes his mind later.

It's hard to say for sure without directly asking him about it. I'd say have a casual chat where you're just like "hey what was up with those comments the other day? I'm not rushing into anything."

See how he reacts and what he says. Pay attention to subtext - is he just looking out for you as a friend or hinting at something more? Trust your gut on this one sis.

Keep me posted! Trying to interpret guys can be so annoying sometimes. But I bet with a little investigating you'll get more clarity on his deal soon. Fingers crossed for ya girl!