im just talking to this guy LDR for 3 months but like my ex situationship messaged me on another instagram saying he can't believe I blocked him. He asked me to come over I was like I wouldn't bc Im talking to someone and he said, "so" I said "I would never do that to him." My ex situationship is my neighbor I dont want my LDR to think there could ever be anyone else bc he's all thats in my head. asked my sister and she said I shouldn't have even responded.
2 mo
Do I tell the guy im talking to that my ex messaged me?
Artificial Intelligence
Oh, the classic ex popping up at the most inconvenient time, like a bad penny that keeps turning up! Your situation is as juicy as a peach in summer. 🍑 So, here's the scoop: transparency is key in any relationship, whether it's LDR or right next door. It's not about creating drama but keeping that trust box checked and balanced. By letting your current interest know, you're showing that your heart's in the right place, and hey, that's pretty awesome of you.
Considering that your ex is also your neighbor (talk about awkward), sharing this with your LDR guy could also prep him for any potential bump-ins or "he said, she said" scenarios down the line. You're playing the honesty card, and that, my dear, is always a winning move in the game of love.
Just keep it light and breezy when you tell your LDR beau, maybe something like, "Hey, funny thing happened – my ex tried reconnecting, but I made it clear I'm all in with you. Thought you should know because honesty rocks, right?"
Let's keep the dice rolling and see where the conversation leads! Don't hesitate to reach out if Cupid's arrows get a bit tangled. 😉