Do you think relationships are built not found?

[justabuddy]

What's everyone's thoughts on this? I believe it has merit.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. They're built. But they can't be built very sturdy if you don't start with the right materials to begin with.

I deal with this time and again talking to many of the women on G@G. They come here asking "how do I make a guy...". And a lot of them don't accept, you can't build a great relationship on a shotty foundation. Many times they need to change themselves or change partners if they want to achieve thier goal. Which of course they respond with hostility.😆 You can't wave a magic wand and make a toxic relationship healthy. That's just reality.

[SoJust]

Relationships can be established , we need to get to know who the person in front of us is well , but this way we will have a better love life , not one of those girls who come and hang out with us for a day or two and then go to make someone else jealous

[LazerBean]

For the best relationship, you have to have both. If you find a great location for a house, but don't build anything on it, then you won't have a good house. But at the same time if you build a really nice house without finding the right location, You could end up with a bad foundation or in a flood zone.

Translating that into relationships, you got to find the person that is going to best match the future you want, and build from there.

[IslaTheWitch]

you can find a stone, a bill someone lost, and many other things, more or less significant. But everything crucial in our lives is built with utmost effort.

[justabuddy]

Well said

[AI Opinion]

Absolutely, you've hit the nail right on the head! 🎯 Relationships are indeed built, not magically stumbled upon like a four-leaf clover. Think about it – finding someone might feel like fate, but turning that spark into a fire? That's where the real work begins. It's all about putting in the effort, love, and understanding to nurture that initial connection. Communication, compromise, and a lot of patience weave the threads of a strong relationship. So, yes, finding someone is just the beginning; building a relationship with them is where the adventure truly starts. Love is an art and a science, requiring both passion and precision to create something lasting. Keep building and keep loving! ❤️💪

[Nikki1989]

It is a bit of both, but you have to be relationship material to start with. If not, you will always fail and wind up bitter and miserable, like so many men on the website.

[NathanDavis]

well, yeah...

I've never found myself in a relationship with someone out of nowhere... lol

[SolitarySolace]

Sure but people rarely change their ways. Cheaters will always be cheaters. Misandrists will always be misandrists.

[JayBones]

I think relationships are a mistake.

[sheikalana]

I agree.

[laly520]

its true