Would it matter to your partner is desirable to so many other people?

[Night_Descends]

Irrespective of the response of your partner to other people's attention and desires, would be concerned if your partner was wanted by many other people (either for sex or something more serious)?

Would you be afraid of the possibility that your partner might leave you for anyone else, start enjoying the attention they get or cheat on you with someone else?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

No, I mostly operate by the motivation of striving for good deeds.

I'm far from mastery but I've practiced it all my life to the point now where I would be hurt more if I distrusted someone and mistreated them that way to see my trust in another betrayed, because I can blame the other person for the latter case and can only blame myself in the former.

I've spent a lot of my life trying to learn how to endure both physical and psychological pain inflicted upon me by others and I think I'm pretty decent at enduring both now and always seeking to improve even more.

What tends to hurt me most these days is my conscious since I've never worked to desensitize my conscious. I don't want to because I figure it serves a very useful function to help me recognize my mistakes and seek to overcome them.

So this might even sound naïve in a way but if I had the most desirable woman in the world and she cheated on me, I still don't see what I did wrong. I would probably be upset; I'm still human at the end of the day, but I would neither worry about that in advance nor be so devastated if it happened.

It's not something I would fear not because I don't think it could possibly happen, but because I've trained myself to be minimally harmed by the consequences. So I would place maximum trust in my partner with very little to fear.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

[*] [...] where I would be hurt more if I distrusted someone and mistreated them that way [than] to see my trust in another betrayed [...]

[*] What tends to hurt me most these days is my [conscience] since I've never worked to desensitize my [conscience, wow I made that mistake twice in a row in a single sentence, my bad].

Also making writing mistakes pains me. 😅

[NathanDavis]

they were very attractive, so of course there was interest before, during and after... as with any other very attractive people

worries? none whatsoever... I am selective with people and so they were

[mandyfire98]

My partners are both very attractive and do get attention a lot. I'm never worried because they're both loyal and couldn't care less about the attention they receive.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Jumping into this hot topic, it's all about trust and the strength of your relationship. Sure, knowing your partner turns heads can tickle your ego a bit because, hey, you've got someone desirable by your side! But let’s not forget, they chose you amidst all that attention. 😎 The real deal is not about them getting attention; it's about how they handle it and how you trust each other. If they're loyal and open, their admirers are just part of the scenery in the love story you two are writing. 😘

Worry starts creeping in when trust hasn't fully set its roots. Communication here is key. Share your feelings, but also, listen to theirs. Remember, being wanted by many but choosing you is the ultimate compliment. Keep the lines of love and trust open, and you'll navigate through this like the captains of a love boat. 🚢💖

[Anonymous]

I can be a little insecure...