If your partner was highly desirable by other men/women but they are with you would that make you feel like you lucky got someone special?

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Like you know your partner is highly desirable either because of their looks, their confidence or whatever and they could be with anyone just about but they chose to be with you of all people.

Does this make you feel lucky? like you found someone really special?

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

I have had a man like this. Every girl wanted him but I got him. He only had eyes for me and I loved hugging him and kissing him and receiving those evil glares!
I have also been in situations where men have wanted me but I was with someone. In those cases whereen are hitting on me staring at me with desire while I'm with my man I love showing off the fact that I am with my man I will cuddle him kiss him rub up all over him I love the idea of him being the envy of the room when I'm with a man I want him to announce it to the world I want him to brag on me I want him to post my SEXIEST picture up on his phone and have MY BEST picture of me at his workstation. It's a man doesn't brag on me or hides me or makes me feel like I'm not special to him that relationship won't last. If he can't say I love you in front of other people that I'm not going to stay with him for long. If he can't tell people in our circle that we're together then no it's not going to last. Just as I like to brag that I'm with a man I want the man to brag on me.

CubsterShura · Accepted Answer

I felt that way about a guy I was dating lately! Very tall and handsome, along with a very attractive voice like he seriously got compliments on his voice. When we would walk around the campus women would stare at him.

I was starting to get very self-esteem that my awkwardness will reflect bad on him 😭😭😭 so I wouldn't be able to fully be myself when we were in public, not his fault.

JustAnj · Answer

Others opinions do not make me feel like I am lucky if anything I find it disrespectful.

I'm kinda weird like that lol

What makes me feel lucky is how much he loves me and how much he lets me show him how crazy I am about him. My guy is my king and I his sensual Queen.

If you asked if I get jealous or insecure, no I do not but if my man gives these woman attention or eyes them then I will become very quickly turned off and will walk away and distance myself. I am not interested in being in a triangle situation even temporarily.

You want me you got me babe and I will make sure you know it. 😌😏

petitedollbabee · Answer

I would feel lucky to be with someone who genuinely loves me and cares about me, whether they’re desirable to others or not. I agree with @apple1996, hidden gems are my favourite. Nerdy guys that aren’t typically desirable to others. Nothing wrong with desirable people, but I don’t particularly want any competition or worry about girls trying to take my man. It’s drama that I can do without.

IronLady6354 · Answer

I actually used to get really insecure about all the girls who would check him out and try to flirt with him. I'm quite a bit older than him. I'd always get super nervous he'd eventually get really bored of me and go after one of the young hot girls checking him out/trying to flirt with him. I'd get (and still do get) some pretty judge-y looks from women who think its crazy I'm dating a guy as much younger as he is to me.
However, I eventually talked to him about my insecurity. He helped me understand that he really is super attracted to me (and there's a reason he chose me over those girls). Now I actually get kind of an ego boost when other women check him out. Sometimes when women are giving me dirty looks I'll purposefully put my hands down his pants, squeeze his butt, and give him a long, passionate, sexy smooch. He gets super turned on and it clearly shows. It's a way of rubbing in their face how badly he wants me. Haha

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

No I don’t think that I have ever felt “lucky” to be dating a gorgeous guy. I know that when I am with a guy who treats me wonderfully, and allows me to reciprocate, someone whom I genuinely look forward to seeing, and I can tell that he feels the same way… well then I just feel blessed! I know it sounds trite, but that is the only word in the English language I know to describe that exact feeling when everything is just perfect, and neither of you deserve that label of happiness, but you have it anyway… It’s just a real blessing.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

my husband is very good looking and people flirt with him all the time. I definitely feel lucky. I don’t get insecure about it because I trust him and I know he’s all mine.
there’s only been one time I got pissed at someone for flirting with him because we were literally holding hands at a bar and some twink came right in between us to talk to him. That’s just disrespectful because we were clearly a couple and they had the nerve to go in between us lol
I was pretty drunk that night too so I think I started arguing and had to leave 💀

Apple1996 · Answer

Nah not really into someone that everyone wants. I'd prefer being with a true hidden gem and keep them all to myself

Well_Wisher · Answer

Though the option I selected was I will feel lucky but what I actually feel is bit more complicated than just feeling lucky. I totally trust my girl but when I see most of the boys hitting on her or trying really hard to get her I do get jealous and feel insecure too. Its kind of mixed feeling like I do feel lucky, yet I am insecure and I fear losing her. Is being possessive about something great we have which everyone else desire that bad😅? Do let me know if someone feels the same.

sonic_fever · Answer

I saw it as lucky and I knew what I had. I trusted my girl knowing that men wanted her badly. I saw he dm’s. My ego went up knowing I had a baddy.
Her on the other hand was extremely jealous. Women wanted me and I payed them no mind but in her head they were competition. She was always on edge that I would leave her for someone prettier and I hated that.

jamesgoldman · Answer

I've had it happen... twice

It was good but I wouldn't say I felt lucky but certainly confident daring on cocky

It was great to watch waiters erc flirt with either of them then pean in and kiss her and watch the situation change and the wonder of 'what does he have' because I must've been rich but nope poorer than my dates all I can truthfully say was I didn't get a complaint in bed so I'll assume it was that

Graci_e · Answer

I wouldn’t feel lucky if lots of girls liked him. That’s nothing special.  I’d feel lucky if he was a great guy and he made me really happy though.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

I would feel very insecure, especially if my partner would be out of my league. I would appreciate a lot the fact such a beautiful person is engaged with me but I won’t lose easily the worry for her being taken by someone else more on her league.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Well, not really. I don’t care for anyone else to find her attractive or desirable outside of myself so it wouldn’t matter if everyone or no one found her desirable. Of course, I can notice that other people find her attractive, desirable, etc.

Aditiiiiii20 · Answer

I'll feel lucky only on the basis of his behaviour, it don't matter to me what others think of him or how adored he is by others.

Keyboardkat · Answer

If she's my partner, that means that we have mutual trust. I trust her, and she trusts me. So no one can break that solid bond. That's why I feel lucky!

TrueConfection · Answer

I've dealt with that for the last 21 years. I kind of roll my eyes and think women look like ridiculous fools more than anything. It hasn't changed my feelings about my husband one way or the other.

Apulu_Imback · Answer

I would feel special even if he isn't desired by others. I know he loves me that is why I'm with him.

menina · Answer

Yes I would feel lucky, but he would also be lucky to be with me.

theblacksheepcat · Answer

I've been in this situation before i eventually left i couldn’t take it anymore

itsalyssaagain · Answer

I would but I'd also prefer to have my man to myself lol.

jengeorge26 · Answer

I wouldn’t feel lucky, I would just be happy. That wasn’t included in the answers

call_me_scar · Answer

Of course I would feel lucky I would have found someone who I could love

SplatKatieSims · Answer

Also has been in previous relationships simlar but girls always like to touch and be mean. Some of girls when too far to sabotage my relationship. Others then. I don't like it and get jelous.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I would maybe be thinking, “well f*ck you, HEEHEE HEE HEEHEE HAW”

Cherry234 · Answer

I would definitely feel lucky.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes i would feel lucky

moonpie89 · Answer

I honestly never let myself have those thoughts.

Dontaaaa · Answer

Nope.

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