My fiancé of 4 years wants to sell nude pictures?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been in a relationship with my fiancé for a long time now, coming up 4 years. We have a daughter and honestly things were going amazing until the last year or two, we got into a rut where we needed extra cash and finally gave in to let her sell her pictures because she wouldn’t stop fighting with me on it out of nowhere, so I let her for a while even though it had hurt me, and now it’s back again that she wants to and has gone to the extent of lieng to my face when asked what she’s doing on Twitter, it’s made me feel insecure with certain things she has posted because not only is it pictures but it is describing things she wants guys to do to her, it makes me feel not good enough in bed or as a partner and the fact that she’s lied to me twice now makes it even harder to deal with, she acts like my feelings don’t matter even when she knew I wasn’t okay with it when she first started dating me, am I the bad guy now for still not wanting her to do it?

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Update she does have disabilities like pots syndrome, I don’t fully understand it but threw out our relationship I’ve given her anything she’s ever wanted, material things I’ve bought for her without question, someone to talk to anytime of the week day or night, the argument now is I’m taking her right away from her to do what she wants with her body, and granted yes I could understand the way she feels with that but I can’t ignore the fact it hurts me and that if it hurts your partner you don’t

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Do it, I’ve always been supportive and there for her, there’s just some things that have changed threw our relationship that I clearly layed down in the beginning that I’m not okay with, she claims to love me so much and not be able to survive without me but can treat me like shit when I’m hurt talking down to me and throwing my insecurities in my face, I didn’t choose for it to hurt me it just did

[Finchie40]

Your fiancé is a selfish person that only thinks about herself , especially since she has been lying to you . My advice to you man is to dump her ass and let her continue her selfish behavior , her time will come when she realizes she is left with nothing , she isn’t capable of being in a relationship with anyone , unless things go her way , Girls’ like that man, you just have to kick to the curb where they belong , she has no respect or dignity for the relationship she chose to be in with you , be thankful you didn’t marry her selfish ass , because she would of taken you for granted and made your life a living hell. Selfish people have no right being in relationships with anyone , they don’t know how to love , because they only love themselves. If she truly loved you , she wouldn’t have gone behind your back like she did. She would have put herself in your shoes first , before making that decision, that fact that she didn’t , just showed her true colors of who she really is. It’s up to you , what you want to do , I am just giving you advice on what I would do if that happened to me. Trust me , I had my fair share of selfish girls’ that only care about themselves , the best thing I did for Myself was to get rid of their selfish asses , Love only grows when 2 people remove selfishness for each other , that wear each others shoes before making decisions, when a partner expects you to do for them but they can’t do for you , that’s someone that is just using you and taking advantage of you , they just like the convenience of you , they don’t understand boundaries in a relationship , they only care about themselves and what they think is best for themselves. You deserve better than that shit man , do yourself a favor and move on from her , she has no respect for the relationship she chose
To be in with you. If money is the only thing that brings her happiness, then let her embarrass herself by posting nudes of herself all over the internet , the only guys she will attract are desperate guys’ that have no problem giving her money to use her. It will just be a matter of time until she realizes how much of a selfish person she really is. Mark my words

[genericname85]

wtf is this even? there's "jobs" you know? if you need extra money, why doesn't she get a fucking job. like most women these days work at least part time while the man works full time. it's normal to not have enough money if only the man works these days.

i mean she is your partner. you're not married but you do have a child so there's definitely a responsibility to make it work for you. if the child wasn't in the picture, i'd just straight up leave.

i would make the argument about the child. like you as parents should be role models for that child. is selling nudes on the internet being "a role model"? fuck no. maybe that argument can make her ditch that shit. but if push comes to shove, i'd still leave her. and i'd probably even go as far as to sue her to get custory, cause i don't think a internet whore can be a proper parent.

[PeachyPie93]

Be blunt hold your place. You don't want her to do it, so give her an ultimatum. If she does it again tell her she will be a single mother lol. Also why is selling nudes the only job she can do to make extra money? Is this really the person you want to marry? 😂

[HelpfulWoman]

ermmm, why you still with her if she's so blatantly lying and not respecting your feelings?

[AI Opinion]

In the land of love and pixels, feeling like the villain in your own love story isn't a role you ever auditioned for, right? But here you are, facing a plot twist that's more jaw-dropping than anything Hollywood could cook up. Let's spotlight the real dilemma here - it's not just about the nude photos. It's about trust, respect, and communication swirling in a cocktail of misunderstanding.

You're not the bad guy for having feelings or setting boundaries. It's vital in a relationship to feel safe, respected, and heard. When your partner decides to go down a path that you're not comfortable with, it's like they're dancing to a tune you never agreed on. And when lies enter the mix? Oh, that's the kind of lovebombing no one signed up for.

It's crucial to have an open, honest, and, yes, maybe a challenging conversation about how this makes you feel and what you both want for your future. Your feelings are valid, and so are hers, but the key to unlocking this impasse is finding a solution that respects both your feelings and hers. Remember, the strongest relationships are built on compromise, understanding, and, most importantly, mutual respect. Don't let the script of your love story be written without your input. It's time to turn the page together.✨

[BoopBoopBeep]

There's so much free porn out there, I promise she's not hot enough to pay for unless there's some simp specifically that she knows who is willing to throw down some cash. Tell her that's the kind of stuff that gets weddings called off. Is she crippled? No? Then she can find another job.

[Anonymous]

At this point I'd pimp her out as much as you can. Get a good nest egg of earnings so when this relationship ends and you have to go your separate way and find a new partner. You can at least get a monetary refund for all you've put into the relationship. Because unfortunately you're not getting those years back. And then she can go chase her porn stardom.

[Yannae]

The things she wants guys to do is probably just talk to reel in buyers. But you said you clearly stated that you weren't okay with it when you both started dating. No you're not the bad guy. She's just ignoring what was agreed upon.

[boggboss]

You got with a girl that wants attention from guys online and because u have allowed it in the past u can't really stop her so meh

[LimitedBenefits101]

She's for the streets.

[Anonymous]

No, that's a huge red flag.