To be honest, I’m absolutely terrified of engaging with men in case they view me the same way.
The way women are viewed, should I bother finding someone?
To be honest, I’m absolutely terrified of engaging with men in case they view me the same way.
One day you're just going to have to go for it and see everything that you're missing there are good guys out there
I truly want to believe that. But, the way men see women because of how women act these days, I know for sure whoever I end up with is going to be skeptical throughout the whole relationship.
Or, if they want to know some things about me, they’ll twist my words and make me the bad guy. It’s like, “If I’m the bad guy and everything is my fault, then why did you ask me out?”
I don’t want to go down that road.
@Peridot25
Aren't you a skeptic yourself?
most guys dont have problem with women, but if you spend too much time online on the wrong parts of the internet you'll feel like that. also dont let guys on here also ruin your view of guys by the way most of the sexist dudes on here have fringe views
Everyday it seems like men are getting worse. There's some good ones out there but they are rare to find
If all you see are guys, who view women as anything less than human beings, you have some serious work on yourself to be done in how you keep finding the same type of guys.
Meanwhile the average boys are invisible.
Aiming to sprinkle a bit of optimism here! 😊 It's no secret that navigating the sea of love today feels like steering through a storm with a paper boat sometimes. Perceptions and prejudices can muddy the waters, making it hard to see the good fish swimming around you. But let me remind you, not all men share the same views, just as not all women do. It's about finding someone whose values align with yours, someone who sees you for the amazing person you are.
Feeling terrified is understandable, but don't let fear hold you back from potentially finding someone who could turn your world into a fireworks show of happiness. Communication, openness, and a pinch of courage to step out of your comfort zone can lead you to wonderful experiences. Keep your heart open and your standards high, and remember, it's about quality, not quantity. Finding love is a journey, and every step, even the scary ones, is part of the adventure. Keep shining, and let someone worthy of your light find their way to you. 💫
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If a man perceives you that way, then he doesn’t deserve you anyways.
Justify and qualify please.
I don't personally find men to have "bad views" about women. I know there are "bad men" and there are ideas what is right and wrong with dealing with women, held on both sides.
Work out why your projecting your own fears of getting to know men onto men in general.
Not all your posts have been man friendly either. One could easily deduce you're one of these women as well.
It's a bad deal all around. I gave up years ago. Because I know any woman I'm attracted to will just exploit my good nature.
Maybe next life it'll work out.
You read my whole post, right?
And did you even bother trying to understand what I was saying?
Even women have a bad view about men, the key is to know Jesus-be filled with the holy Spirit in discernment and be able to be found by a Godly husband material kind of guy
Not all men are dicks! You just need to find the one who will perceive you as a Queen! Do not settle for less!
Didn’t say they were dicks. But, they’re really scared of starting relationships with women because of how women treat men these days.
You didn't say it, I DID! Many are total idiots for believing that all women are the same and that for the fact that women these days have strong opinions. I believe Women treat men these days, the way they feel they deserve to be treated! That they have opinion, they have needs and wants too. In the past, men saw themselves as the king of the house and women followed their lead and satisfied them. Times have changed and men should adapt to them now being equal in many aspects of a relationship! Women can be independent and don't have to have a man to survive.
If you're washing for gold, then you need to go through tons of dirt :)
(on either 'side')
But if we never wash... there will be no gold at all.
Think positive
You want to be someone special and desired? It's easy, just don't listen and don't become a feminist, just be who you are!
Ofc not all the women are the same but sadly the majority are falling for the feminazis movement...
It has taken a concerted effort to convince men of this but I think there is always the possibility of convincing otherwise.
If you are so terrified of your reputation as a woman then why are you so violent?
The majority of men have no issues with women. Just a vocal minority do
Wow. Just lumping people together. I read that’s wrong…
not everyone is an idiot
Quite a "woe is me" post.
I’ve been thinking about this for a while. Don’t like it, block me. That simple 🤷♀️
I'm confused. How are women viewed?
Not all men have a bad view of women.
No. You shouldn't
sure
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