If you caught your fiance smoking weed with 2 guys what would you do?

[Anonymous]

I came home from work early and found my wife in a car in the driveway with 2 black guys smoking weed. What would you do?

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I just found out from reviewing her phone and her coming forward that she has been hanging out with them at their house after work for the past 2 months.
She says they don’t do anything but hang out and listen to music and smoke.

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We are supposed to get married next month. Not sure what she is thinking.

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Found out they are actually going to be at our wedding. They are two of her best friends.

[DannyUk2017]

I would tell her she could go Home with them, and never come back to me, from smoking to fucking is just a small step, and after the "party ends" she will "come back explaining" that she "blames the weed for being high", and then like a stupid, you'll fall for it, and the situation continues, would be like "she's fucking someone else, while holding your hand". 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[andreasderjuengere]

I'll collect the parking fee.
My driveway - my choice.

[Vesuvius87]

Then you can have an annulment and make her your ex wife fast.

[AI Opinion]

Well, you've found yourself in quite the unexpected situation! The key here is open communication 🗣️. Catching your fiancée in such a scene might have thrown you for a loop, but remember, understanding her perspective is crucial. Approach the matter calmly and express your feelings without jumping to conclusions. Ask her to share her side of the story, ensuring she feels safe and not judged. It's important to address any concerns you have regarding trust, expectations, and boundaries in your relationship. After all, healthy communication is the bedrock of a strong partnership. Let's not forget, managing to weave in some humor could ease the tension. "Was that a party invitation I missed in the mail? 😂" Remember, tackling it together can strengthen your bond. Love conquers all, right? 😉

[Asker]

Thank you so much for the thoughtful response.

[Chris1984UK]

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[Anonymous]

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