Would you be okay if your partner smoked cigarettes or weed?

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Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

It's totally according to how much of either that is being imbibed. I wouldn't want to be involved with a chain smoker or pothead. No one smokes cigarettes or vapes in my house. Excess isn't a good thing.

On occasion I smoke cigars. But not in my house. And I know they're stinky. And I have two friends who ARE chain smokers. I see them on their front porch in the open air. They don't smoke in their house. So that's tolerable. But I don't live with them or am with them every day. It would be an impossible situation.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Well I smoke cigarettes so 🤷‍♀️
Weed, would depend on the person and how responsible they are with it. Someone that goes home after a long day at work and uses that to relax or for pain, not a problem… someone that sits around all day smoking weed/playing video games, can’t keep a job.. no

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

Cigarettes, probably not because they would be hitting me up for money all the time to buy them, and then every time we go somewhere, it would be "I'm out of cigarettes. We gotta stop somewhere or you gotta take me home". I have dated so many girls like that.

Weed, yes, as long as they weren't smoking it every day and were doing something with their life. Girls on weed are more fun, cooler, they never physically assault me, and I can talk to them about anything.

Most girls I can't be myself.

JustinTheGreat · Accepted Answer

For me, my partner being a weed smoker is a must lmao. Cause I’m a weed smoker so I’d love to have someone to unwind and smoke with at the end of the night.
My husband and I smoke every night. We were rolling up blunts in the limo on our wedding day lmao.

And I wouldn’t mind if he smoked cigs. As long as he doesn’t do it in the house stinking the place up. I probably would encourage them to try and quit tho

Apple1996 · Answer

Wouldn't bother me. My guy is more into vaping and drinking though

Pinay_ako · Answer

No chimney mouth for me

ariadneR · Answer

Been there done that.
My past 3 exs they all smoked. Highschool boyfriend just smoked, my boyfriend that I had in my early 20s smoked and did speed and ecstasy, and dickhead ex smoked cigarettes, did weed.
Damn just typing that out made me realize that my current boyfriend is the only one that doesn't do any of that stuff. 🤯

DarkCarousel · Answer

I wouldn’t be okay with that. I don’t like either of those things.
I used to smoke cigarettes many years ago when I was single but that’s not something I want to waste time, energy, or health on at this point in my life.

electromagnetic · Answer

Since I’m a recreational user myself, I cannot say no to a partner that dabbles in the devils lettuce. Cigarettes on the other hand, I don’t find the smoke smell to be refreshing.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Weed is fine. I am an ex-smoker of cigarettes, so I prefer if they are not around me these days.

TrueConfection · Answer

Nope. That would cause immediate separation. If he really wants me to sign divorce papers, all he has to do is take up smoking.

Sexiestjohnson · Answer

It always feels cool until stuff like cancer come knocking and you have to take care of them as you watch their life drain out of them.

Singing_Hollow · Answer

Mine smokes weed when he has had a hard day or week. I prefer him like that because he becomes so lovable and cute hahaha... I wouldn't approve of cigs because i care about his health and mine and if you care for someone then their health should come first.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Weed, yes; tobacco, no.

Research is still needed on the effects of weed on health - America's stupid, ill-advised and racism motivated "War on Drugs" destroyed most of our early research.

So far, though, humans have smoked weed for centuries and it's not had as many observable issues as tobacco.

Personally, I smoke weed and greatly enjoy when I can share that with my date.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Sure, aslong as they’re responsible about it. As in they can afford it, they’re not starving themselves or going without their basic needs in order to afford an addiction, and they’re not abusing it. I’d rather date someone who smokes tobacco or weed than date someone who drinks every week or uses more harmful drugs.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I don't do either very much myself, but I'm also not a prude and I don't judge my girl for doing the same shit I did when I was her age.
Sometimes I'll join her for the hell of it. Get high, fuck, smoke in bed. It's the shit

exitseven · Answer

I dated a few girls that smoked. This was a long time ago when it was a lot more popular. It never really bothered me. The only thing that was gross was when I would go out to my car the next morning if we were out in it the night before. I think today I would be more grossed out by it.

Unit1 · Answer

No! It's a direct health hazard to me.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I personally wouldn't. I don't like the smell of smoke and don't want my partner smelling funny.

Bricealan · Answer

No, never... been there and done that... but then again... if @Brainsbeforebeauty smokes... I just might change my mind 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔👀👀👀

Kiss_Me · Answer

Nope. I prefer people of a higher caliber. Why would I want someone that follows the crowd so far as to be a drug addict? Smoking is an addiction.

Lliam · Answer

I wouldn't mind if it was only occasionally, and not in the house or the car. But heavy smoking would be a no go. I don't like addicts.
I like to smoke a tobacco pipe sometimes and I'm not averse to weed.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I don’t like the smell of cigarettes, I want to feel his scent, cigarette smell tends to cover his pheromones.

With weed I have no problem, as long as he doesn’t smoke it so often that it affects his sperm quality and performance in bed.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I am allergic to cigarettes. I get headaches. Weed, okay.

strateguy632 · Answer

tobacco is deal breaker n weed frighten me i would separate

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Probably not smoking cigarettes but if they did I would hope it's not a lot. Weed I'm more okay with but I just don't want them to be some kind of addict.

Beatrix7 · Answer

yeah mines dome that and i do the same except mines got hefty way to stoned every day

EricSummer · Answer

No, I would not be okay with that. Of course, I pick a non-smoker right away. I do not expect her to change such habits for me.

EmmaMary · Answer

I most certainly would  Not  be happy at all, so there simply wouldn't be any dating whatsoever... Period.

asphaltrhymes · Answer

No I would not be okay with it and I wouldn't have picked them in the first place to date. 😒

MrOracle · Answer

Nope. Immediate deal breaker. No discussion. We're done.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Smoking anything (weed, hookah, cigarettes, cigars, vape, e-cigs, etc) is a dealbreaker

BCA6010 · Answer

Nope. It's an immediate turnoff in either case.

Anonymous · Answer

Gonna be a no for me. My mother is a smoker and the smell is absolutely horrible. 🤮

Adam1978 · Answer

No that's as unattractive as a land whale.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Weed, sure! As long as it's not gonna get ME in trouble. Smokes, no fucking way!!

Fuentes · Answer

Nah no smokers lol

Pink2000 · Answer

Weed is fine.

tfan1 · Answer

No. I don’t smoke and my wife doesn’t smoke.

soe11 · Answer

My girlfriend does socially, occasionally and on vacation.

magiusX26 · Answer

hypothetically speaking here. cigs, fine. weed, is a nope from me.

DarkLegacy · Answer

Nope, weed is the most disgusting substance there is

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Yes. Pass the joint woman! Sittin there talking about your coworkers and shit. Now I gotta get more hi to handle your long ass stories!

najekim · Answer

We smoke cigarettes but I am allergic to weed. Even a person smelling of weed makes me nauseous.

Anonymous · Answer

Doesn’t bother me as long as they aren’t messy about it. Brush ur teeth wash your hands change your clothes afterwards is all and don’t leave it all out making a sloppy mess

Rahulaj · Answer

I don't smoke and my girl should be healthy so no smoking

imfreeze95 · Answer

I would be fine with marijuana if it was for medical purposes. Such as cancer or a mental condition

xeriz · Answer

its coo if they smoke weed but NAHHHH not cigarettes thats nasty

BrookeAZ90 · Answer

No and I guess maybe if it wasn't excessive

alearningboy · Answer

No i dont want to have my girlfriend smoking cigarettes

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Not since my heart attack.

Blackcupcake · Answer

nope that’s a dealbreaker for me

Faith18letsgo · Answer

Yeah as long as they only did it outside.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Weed is a must. 💕💕

Lionman95 · Answer

No both are redflags to me.

Simslover92 · Answer

Weed yes. Cigarettes no.

JBlade · Answer

No, I don’t want either of those smells near me.

Agape93 · Answer

Don't do it in my house and I won't care

misogynistic_pig · Answer

No.  .

LazerBean · Answer

Nope.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nope, thats a dealbreaker.

XXblack88 · Answer

No that's a deal breaker for me

annabananna · Answer

I don’t love the smell so I’d prefer him not.

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