Do you mind if your partner smokes weed?

Question

I don't, as long as she smokes it responsibly and is not stoned 24/7.

TonyBologna25 · Accepted Answer

I personally don’t like it, but It’s legal for recreational use here so I don’t really care. As long as it’s not excessive. Fucking lol @ the people saying you’re a junkie if you smoke pot. It’s the equivalent of having a glass of wine at the end of the day in my books.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

Would be a deal breaker

MissKittyz · Accepted Answer

Yes I do. A dealbreaker actually. I wouldn't date someone who smokes anything or take drugs. I'm glad I found someone who doesn't do any of that.

WhiteShoulder · Accepted Answer

That's fine

coachTanthony · Answer

If she looks like that?  YES smoke it up!

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would be upset if a guy did that.

nortyyee · Answer

Not at all. I smoke everyday, almost all of my exes smoked with me. It can be a good way to connect. Smoking weed makes you more receptive to emotional energies and it's a very good way to get to know someone. When you're faded you generally speak your mind more confidently and are more open to others ideas and suggestions. I recommend everyone try it at least twice (not once bc some people don't get high the first time) however I'm not someone to peer pressure but I do think it really opens up your mind and expands your thinking from just the physical to the more spiritual and emotional

Hamsteroids · Answer

I have a big issue with it. Dated three guys in the past who did and it just bugged the hell out of me. I tried to understanding but nah. Thank god my man doesn’t smoke nor drink. He’s a dream

hahahmm · Answer

I would be open minded if:
1. We live in a place where it’s legal.
2. She has used it for many years & has a light habit. Less risk of her going overboard. Have known people who needed a hit every 15-30 minutes. Ridiculous.
3. She can easily fund her own habit cause I ain’t buying her drugs.

MaleMan10 · Answer

I gave it up and don't particularly want a partner who "Has" to smoke weed on a regular basis. However, bottom line for me is to get a feel for her lifestyle as a whole bc motive and frequency will usually show me the importance and impact weed is going to have on the relationship.
Ex: if she's built a lifestyle around smoking the Black Gold, Buddha, or Christmas Tree that significantly alters her personality I would have to move on.
Ex: if an occasional 2 hit nightcap on occasion to be chill at night is the situation and there's no suspicious behavior surrounding the weed, I'm cool with it. Hope this helps.

Kaazsz · Answer

I’d prefer one that smokes. It’s not like there’s a shortage. Literally every female I know smokes weed so I’m not worried lol.

Pot is great. Some people are still stuck in their “omg drugs are bad!” Mentality. Have fun with that.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a deal-breaker for me. Anything you breathe directly into your lungs is unhealthy. I look after my health the best i can, so i won't allow anyone to smoke around me. Even if he didn't smoke weed around me, the toxins will still be on his clothes, breath, skin and hair.

mermaidia_lol · Answer

Yes, I mind. I'd prefer if he didn't have to depend on substances to sate his moods. And it looks so low class, honestly.

Kayla45 · Answer

Drugs are very bad, especially for relationships. If he cares more about pot than he cares about me then I'd dump him and find me a man who's drug free.

inchesfrommadness · Answer

Yes. We all know the risks and dangers of smoking weed. It kills brain cells and it's really just not a good idea. If my partner smokes weed, it shows me that they don't care about their brain or body. For people who like the feeling of getting high, there are other ways to feel good.

laurieluvsit · Answer

No, I am opposed to it for a huge number of reasons and don't like being around it.

For some strange reason though, I am not that way with alcohol.

I don't drink either but I think it is funny watching how peoples personalities change as they consume adult beverages, some times it is quite comical :)

Do you mind if your partner smokes weed?

sheepdip · Answer

I... am conflicted.

My friend has basically used it as a crutch for his emotional wellbeing for years and its fucked his head up.

I don't think you should stop someone exercising their right to personal bodily autonomy, and you should intervene only when necessary - but I do not think it's a healthy habit to get into and I would discourage my partner from doing it.

kyatra · Answer

Smoking of any kind is a dealbreaker for me. For practical purposes, I have asthma, smoke is a major trigger, and a partner who smokes could wind up sending me to the hospital. For other purposes, I have seen both nicotine and marijuana ruin lives. Yeah, maybe marijuana isn't as bad for you as nicotine, that doesn't mean it's not bad for you.

Drowningkingfish · Answer

Ha ha ha, from where I come from weed is a class A illegal drug, so no I'd prefer to say not. However if I were an American I see if it impacts her badly and interferes with her life, plus what is her smoking habit in general, if she smokes 8 faggets in the same hour, then no that's a massive deal breaker, but if it is around once or twice a week then I'd be able to stand it.

John1972 · Answer

I dont care a bit. I personally smoked for 15 years and one day just up and quit. Just because I dont partake doesn't mean they have to conform to my life

JackRoss129 · Answer

It's hot as hell. Having sex while you're girl smokes weed is truly something to behold. All my favourite porn scenes are always when a girl gets fucked while smoking. Makes the girl ten times hotter. This is all providing she has some substance and a good personality, if not then fuck it.

SarahsSummer · Answer

while I'm not really into it myself, my guy does occasionally. High or not, he's highly productive lol and it's legal here so I dont mind.

JKingOff · Answer

Yes. I mind a lot. That stuff smells like the back end of a skunk. How anyone got the idea to put it in their mouth and light it on fire is beyond me.

Mr_Kapstar · Answer

As long as she doesn't waste much of the money on it and she's not stoned 24/7 I'm grand with that, I don't want to be a sugar daddy. On top of that, I wouldn't want her smoking with the wrong company. I've seen some disgusting people out there that smoke that i. e. shove cigarettes in their boxers for "flavor" and then give it to a girl to smoke (sick, I know!) and I definitely would not want her in those companies... I would much rather her beside me.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I would prefer that they didn't. I want someone who is not on any drugs so that they can be fully mentally present and be able to experience all of the emotions and bonding while developing a relationship with me. And also so they can remember the things that we talk about and the things we experience together. (And I want the same thing for myself.).

Ayer93 · Answer

I don't smoke. Tried a few tokes a few times, but I've confirmed it's not for me. But my partner does smoke occasionally whenever we go to a party together which is rarely. It doesn't bother me. Everything in moderation. As long as she's not spending all her money on weed then it's fine.

Pete671 · Answer

Weed def not, you don't know what's in it these days, but a little Colombian sensi can be awesome, when I refer to herbal cannabis as "grass" I get comments like "where are you from grandad? the 1960s or something?" correct on both counts and you don't know what you missed out on,,,
Medicate not intoxicate!,,,

QueenTanya · Answer

Yes, I do mind. Your breath smells like weed and so do your clothes, it's disgusting and I wanna breathe fresh air when I'm around you. It's worse if you get addicted

Clo917 · Answer

If they did so for medical reasons/pain relief, that's fine. Anything else, I'd have an issue with

CarpetDenim · Answer

I don’t agree with it because I don’t think it’s healthy for him to be smoking anything. Only thing going into his lungs should be oxygen. I would be totally cool if he consumed it in a different way though, like edibles.

BarryMcKohkner · Answer

I don't think anybody really cares. It doesn't harm you, except for the fact that smoke in general isn't good for your lungs. Other than that it makes almost everything better, in moderation of course.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

Yes, I would mind. It's immature, stupid and leads to addiction (save your bullshit, potheads, you're only lying to yourselves and you're pathetic).

moo07 · Answer

For I don't like this kind of behavior, that's because her mood will change from time to time, we can drink together to have some fun but weed is a loosing direction and will lead to troubles,
By the way I already tried this experience and it was not good at all.

likelyOK · Answer

Okay this is so relevant to me rn, bc I was just in a relationship with a weed smoker and No it does not bother me in fact I started again myself. And now that's over... I miss his weed

pleasestopthis · Answer

I don't like it. If he wants to do it, I prefer him to do it when I'm not around.

Mustachekitteh · Answer

As long as they don't let it mess with their life in a negative way and anyone around them, I'm fine with it.

Киттйлинк · Answer

Yup I do.  I will never be in a relationship with anyone that’s smokes anything at all. Ewwk 🤢... losers.

BCA6010 · Answer

Yes. It's an immediate turn-off without exception. Even if I didn't care about it personally, I get regularly tested at my job and just being around it could cause problems.

MindYourEyes · Answer

Nope. Not tolerating that crap. Just ain’t my thing.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I absolutely mind. Its a dealbreaker and smells horrible

ALackey · Answer

I personally love guys that smoke weed because I do however that's not gonna be anything that I'll judge someone off of

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

If it's every once in a while, say once or twice a month, then I don't mind and will even do it with her. But any more than that and I could see it becoming an issue.

JakeMist86 · Answer

Gawd I miss weed. Can't use it because I work with kids and will not be a hypocrite... I would really enjoy hanging out and getting high with a partner. Just laugh the night away and enjoy the cuddles and company!

Bribree18 · Answer

I don’t mind at all🥰 actually I’d prefer if they did since I do.

Peuples_Francs · Answer

I don't mind if A) she doesn't smoke it in the house or near me B) she's not stoned out of her mind in my presence

SufiLux · Answer

Yes corporations love anybody who gives an exotic excuse to get rejected. do what you want. Never get snapped unless u don't care.

ShortCircuit · Answer

I would never date someone who has ever smoked marijuana, or tobacco, or even vaped, on even one, single occasion to begin with.

LaVillaStrangiato · Answer

I'd prefer it. It would let me know she's laid back and not some kind of uber-compliant loser. Plus, sex when high is fucking amazing! Like 10X better amazing!

Tiffanykells · Answer

OMG I remember an ex boyfriend saying his mate was stoned!!! I was like OMG that's awful was it all stones or bricks too 🙈🙈

Sexyb213 · Answer

I don’t care if they smoke because I personally have smoked for the past 2 years or so I think it’s cool

PinkMichae · Answer

I smoke it for medical purposes so no. But even when I didn't smoke my ex did. As long as he was functioning I really didn't care.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No, as long as she doesn't make herself a pot-head with it. One to 3 joints a day, fine, but I wouldn't be so thrilled about her doing nothing BUT getting high all day/every day!!

heyzeuspiece · Answer

I don’t care as long as it doesn’t disrupt growth and passion.

Lunatic1 · Answer

Not at all, within reason. As long as all she smokes is weed.

arabgoddess · Answer

Yes I do mind!! I wouldn't want to be with that partner

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

My boyfriend smoked all day long. Helps with his ied so it’s whatever to me. Not a big deal.

musicbrain5 · Answer

I prefer someone who doesn’t smoke anything at all, so yeah I would mind.

front2back · Answer

Yes, because I am drug tested on a regular basis about once a month. I can't being doing drugs and wouldn't like to be around them, and I never found weed to be that good in the first place.

jc2992 · Answer

No, if i had a girlfriend who smoked weed i would most likely hit it with her. just as long as it was only to wind down and not all day, everyday of course.

Teahappy · Answer

Yes, any form of smoking is a no-go and unattractive

ikisseddeath · Answer

I personally do I dont like weed I'm straight edge so I dont drink or smoke anything but that's just me I dont judge people that do I just wouldn't want my partner to I'd like if they shared the same beliefs

ThisDudeHere · Answer

I wouldn't so long as it wouldn't be every single day. Once a week would be fine in my opinion.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes, I don't like drugs in general... the smell of that one I don't care for, bu

Emay71 · Answer

I funny mine at all, at long s they're not abusing the drug.

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