Do you mind if your partner smokes weed?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I don't, as long as she smokes it responsibly and is not stoned 24/7.

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Personally, I never smoked pot and I never will, but I don't mind her smoking it.

[TonyBologna25]

I personally don’t like it, but It’s legal for recreational use here so I don’t really care. As long as it’s not excessive. Fucking lol @ the people saying you’re a junkie if you smoke pot. It’s the equivalent of having a glass of wine at the end of the day in my books.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I don't smoke pot and I don't think I'll ever do, but I completely agree with you.

[Avicenna]

Would be a deal breaker

[Avicenna]

Thanks for the MHO

[MissKittyz]

Yes I do. A dealbreaker actually. I wouldn't date someone who smokes anything or take drugs. I'm glad I found someone who doesn't do any of that.

[Freddy_D]

Not even hallucinogens?

[MissKittyz]

I wouldn't even be friends with someone who takes that stuff. So obviously not. No exceptions. Drugs are drugs.

[Psynax]

"drugs are drugs"... Obviously you wouldn't have a partner that drinks Alcohol as a beginner since that's one of the most lethal drugs. Also, you wouldn't date someone who uses pharmaceutical medications either it be prescription or OTC. consume sugary beverages or candy. Neither would you date or be a friend with someone who drinks coffee.

Damn you really narrow down your possibilities to get a partner to exclude ones who use any form of drug lol

[MissKittyz]

Lmfao. I had a feeling someone would try to be a smartass with my opinion. You obviously knew what I meant buddy but you're just trying to be a smartass so not even going to waste my time. I'm already engaged to someone who does not drink alcohol, who doesn't smoke or take any illegal drugs or recreational drugs that aren't prescribed by a doctor. Just like I have plenty of friends who don't do that shit either. Do you want a list of all the drugs that are dealbreakers to me since you want to be a smartass? Lol no need to respond cause I won't do that. My opinion doesn't concern you.

[Psynax]

You just wasted your time typing all that lol and I'm not your buddy! Homie.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@Psynax
Guess MissKittyz wants s non vaccinator. I would have said what you did.

@MissKittyz
Guess you could not handle what was said.

[Luijo]

Nice

[MissKittyz]

@MysteriousDarkness nah lol I just don't care cause it was my opinion. If you don't agree with it, well who cares lol not like we will ever be friends. you guys are just random strangers on the internet. My opinion won't change. Still a dealbreaker no matter what you guys say or think lol

[MysteriousDarkness]

@MissKittyz
Since you won't be with anyone that rakes drugs then you betterchope the person you are with does not need any type of major surgery like open heart surgery, brain surgery, organ transplant, emergency surgery etc because they will give him anesthesia which could be general, local, regional, or conscious sedation.

[Luijo]

Stop comparing things like cofee and anesthesia with " recreational " drugs... just understand that because you or some other people think that is fine to consume mj or other recreational drug doesn't mean that everyone has to think the same way, some people just don't like it and is ok, if you like it you do you, also she already said that her boyfriend don't do any drug, if a surgery has to be done it will not happen like every 8 hours...

[Psynax]

@Luijo Her own fault for saying "drugs are drugs" and not referring to whether it be medically or recreationally and making it generally. You don't say you dislike cars because you don't like a specific brand. You don't say you don't like food because you dislike a specific dish. You don't say you don't like people when it's a specific group of people.

Since she mean that she dislikes people who use drugs recreationally or people who uses drugs medically that's not prescibed, then that's what she should've said.

[WhiteShoulder]

That's fine

[WhiteShoulder]

Thanks

[coachTanthony]

If she looks like that?

YES smoke it up!

[jennifer_bloom]

I would be upset if a guy did that.

[Hamsteroids]

I have a big issue with it. Dated three guys in the past who did and it just bugged the hell out of me. I tried to understanding but nah. Thank god my man doesn’t smoke nor drink. He’s a dream

[nortyyee]

Not at all. I smoke everyday, almost all of my exes smoked with me. It can be a good way to connect. Smoking weed makes you more receptive to emotional energies and it's a very good way to get to know someone. When you're faded you generally speak your mind more confidently and are more open to others ideas and suggestions. I recommend everyone try it at least twice (not once bc some people don't get high the first time) however I'm not someone to peer pressure but I do think it really opens up your mind and expands your thinking from just the physical to the more spiritual and emotional

[hahahmm]

I would be open minded if:
1. We live in a place where it’s legal.
2. She has used it for many years & has a light habit. Less risk of her going overboard. Have known people who needed a hit every 15-30 minutes. Ridiculous.
3. She can easily fund her own habit cause I ain’t buying her drugs.

[hahahmm]

The legal part I mentioned is because I won’t risk having my car/house confiscated. And users never listen when you tell them not to bring their drugs onto your property

[MaleMan10]

I gave it up and don't particularly want a partner who "Has" to smoke weed on a regular basis. However, bottom line for me is to get a feel for her lifestyle as a whole bc motive and frequency will usually show me the importance and impact weed is going to have on the relationship.
Ex: if she's built a lifestyle around smoking the Black Gold, Buddha, or Christmas Tree that significantly alters her personality I would have to move on.
Ex: if an occasional 2 hit nightcap on occasion to be chill at night is the situation and there's no suspicious behavior surrounding the weed, I'm cool with it. Hope this helps.

[Kaazsz]

I’d prefer one that smokes. It’s not like there’s a shortage. Literally every female I know smokes weed so I’m not worried lol.

Pot is great. Some people are still stuck in their “omg drugs are bad!” Mentality. Have fun with that.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I honestly never smoked it and don't think I'll ever will, but I have no problem with her smoking it!

[mermaidia_lol]

Yes, I mind.

I'd prefer if he didn't have to depend on substances to sate his moods. And it looks so low class, honestly.

[Anonymous]

It's a deal-breaker for me. Anything you breathe directly into your lungs is unhealthy. I look after my health the best i can, so i won't allow anyone to smoke around me. Even if he didn't smoke weed around me, the toxins will still be on his clothes, breath, skin and hair.

[morimeme1]

"Anything you breathe directly into your lungs is unhealthy", read that again.

[Opinion Owner]

@morimeme1

You should read it again. It seems like you've misunderstood. I'll be breathing his smoke directly into my lungs.

There's not only second hand smoke that causes harm, but theird hand smoke as well.

[Opinion Owner]

The who smoke force others to be breathe it directly into their lungs. That's why I'm happy smoking is banned in public places

[Opinion Owner]

those*

[Opinion Owner]

smoking weed is so immature

[zollo]

lol she meant that your statement sounds a little dumb because Oxygen is a thing that we all happen to breathe directly into our lungs, we know you didn't mean it that way, it just sounds silly.

[Kayla45]

Drugs are very bad, especially for relationships. If he cares more about pot than he cares about me then I'd dump him and find me a man who's drug free.

[J2ohhhhh]

There are no drug free man sweetheart.

[Kayla45]

Yes there is, I've been with some before. Check yourself.

[inchesfrommadness]

Yes. We all know the risks and dangers of smoking weed. It kills brain cells and it's really just not a good idea. If my partner smokes weed, it shows me that they don't care about their brain or body. For people who like the feeling of getting high, there are other ways to feel good.

[TacocaT6969]

Alcohol kills brain cells, not cannabis. You’re fresh out of the DARE program. We’ve all been there. Do real research, don’t be a sheep.

[Vivaldi]

@TacocaT6969

As far as I am concered, it is opposite.

But alcohol high is dangerious. It makes you lose your mind when on it. I get very agressive on alcohol.

Weed? It is as illegal as heroin here. And people would look at you the same way.

[TacocaT6969]

@Vivaldi it is a well known fact that alcohol kills brain cells.

It’s also a well known fact that the ridiculous propaganda against cannabis is dying as more research is done hence why many places are beginning to legalize it especially for medical use.

The banning of marijuana was based on lies produced mainly by the timber and cotton industries who believed that the hemp industry would make them go bankrupt.

Google can tell you every step in the history of these lies from the very beginning.

[Vivaldi]

@TacocaT6969

Alcohol gives damages to the brain but it does not kill brain cells. If you search the fact.

[Vivaldi]

It harms brain cells but it does not kill brain cells.

[Vivaldi]

In long term use, weed is more harmful to the brain than alcohol. But It does not mean that alcohol does not harm the brain.

[TacocaT6969]

Wrong again buddy. Ask science.

Science says that cannabis can only cause negative effects to the brain when consumed by someone who’s brain has not finished developing.

In fully developed adults cannabis is beneficial to the brain which is why it is used to treat Alzheimers.

If it was harmful to the adult brain it would not reverse the effects of cognitive deterioration.

[laurieluvsit]

No, I am opposed to it for a huge number of reasons and don't like being around it.

For some strange reason though, I am not that way with alcohol.

I don't drink either but I think it is funny watching how peoples personalities change as they consume adult beverages, some times it is quite comical :)

[sheepdip]

I... am conflicted.

My friend has basically used it as a crutch for his emotional wellbeing for years and its fucked his head up.

I don't think you should stop someone exercising their right to personal bodily autonomy, and you should intervene only when necessary - but I do not think it's a healthy habit to get into and I would discourage my partner from doing it.

[kyatra]

Smoking of any kind is a dealbreaker for me. For practical purposes, I have asthma, smoke is a major trigger, and a partner who smokes could wind up sending me to the hospital. For other purposes, I have seen both nicotine and marijuana ruin lives. Yeah, maybe marijuana isn't as bad for you as nicotine, that doesn't mean it's not bad for you.

[Drowningkingfish]

Ha ha ha, from where I come from weed is a class A illegal drug, so no I'd prefer to say not. However if I were an American I see if it impacts her badly and interferes with her life, plus what is her smoking habit in general, if she smokes 8 faggets in the same hour, then no that's a massive deal breaker, but if it is around once or twice a week then I'd be able to stand it.

[John1972]

I dont care a bit. I personally smoked for 15 years and one day just up and quit. Just because I dont partake doesn't mean they have to conform to my life

[Gof8t]

wow!

[John1972]

Wow?

[JackRoss129]

It's hot as hell. Having sex while you're girl smokes weed is truly something to behold. All my favourite porn scenes are always when a girl gets fucked while smoking. Makes the girl ten times hotter. This is all providing she has some substance and a good personality, if not then fuck it.

[SarahsSummer]

while I'm not really into it myself, my guy does occasionally. High or not, he's highly productive lol and it's legal here so I dont mind.

[JKingOff]

Yes. I mind a lot. That stuff smells like the back end of a skunk. How anyone got the idea to put it in their mouth and light it on fire is beyond me.

[Mr_Kapstar]

As long as she doesn't waste much of the money on it and she's not stoned 24/7 I'm grand with that, I don't want to be a sugar daddy. On top of that, I wouldn't want her smoking with the wrong company. I've seen some disgusting people out there that smoke that i. e. shove cigarettes in their boxers for "flavor" and then give it to a girl to smoke (sick, I know!) and I definitely would not want her in those companies... I would much rather her beside me.