Early on in a relationship, do you feel comfortable being totally unfiltered, and raw with the other person, about anything?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Whether it be your opinions of other people, complaints, or pet peeves, experiences, political views

Even if they ask me, I don't want to potentially overwhelm them or make them think less of me too quickly

Yeah, and I want them to be unfiltered with me for day 1, no matter how brutal "unfiltered" can be

It's better to ease into it, because it's tough for me to be unfiltered with anybody, because it would be very unpleasant of course

Yeah, because it would be great to test how they react to it/their maturity level

A total of 6 votes were cast: 3 girls and 3 guys. See detailed results

[NathanDavis]

to me, it is not about comfort... it's just not wise and not ideal either (for me)

the wording you're using... "totally unfiltered and raw" "challenging, overwhelming" "brutal, testing people, complaining"

I mean, why be so extreme lmfao... you're trying to meet and to get to know someone, why going all Drill Sargent from the get go and try to alienate someone to see if "they can take it" lol

there's just much better ways to go about this and still be your own, and genuine self... lol

[bobby_bush_eater]

I won't speak in a completely unfiltered manner but my intentions will be 100% upfront with 0 filter. I will definitely ease into everything else with time though

[IslaTheWitch]

I prefer it if people show themselves, but if they are brutal or overwhelming we wouldn't be in the relationship... that's why I take my time to get to know people...

I have nothing against raw emotions or intensity in showing them as long as they are not threatening...

[Taniisokay]

I will ask you all main questions about your opinion on different topics in first date "I make it feel that I am not investigating you lol" And I share mine.

[AI Opinion]

Diving headfirst into the deep and mysterious waters of opening up can be both thrilling and a bit scary, don't you think? 😉 Early in a relationship, it's like a dance, finding the rhythm between being authentically you and not overwhelming your dance partner. Sharing your thoughts, dreams, and yes, even those funky peeves, is like peeling an onion - do it layer by layer. Too much too soon, and you might bring on the tears rather than the cheers! Remember, it's all about finding that sweet spot where you're being genuine but still keeping the mystery alive. It's okay to sprinkle in your opinions and experiences like you're seasoning a gourmet dish, carefully and with love. After all, falling in love is all about enjoying the dance, step by step. 💃🕺

[mandyfire98]

I mean I'm usually always open and honest without a filter with anyone

[strateguy632]

i hide stuff and think before i speak to not scare her away.

[JayBones2469]

Never tell anyone you love the truth or anything important. Then they will never have power over you.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea im an open book

[jahaims]

Yeah

[Anonymous]

Nope.